My wife left me. She's in an emotional relationship with another man who's wife just passed away in March. He has three kids and is apparently wealthy. We have three children and have been married for 12 years.She is placing complete blame on me. I went through a rough time when I left the military suffering from severe depression and anger and alcoholism. I've since quit drinking completely and have turned to prayer and to God for help. I want to restore our marriage desperately. I love her dearly. I'm not sure how to go about reconciling our marriage. She says she doesn't love me anymore and that it is impossible to make amends.