So because my husband intentionally crippled himself financially during our divorce proceedings, I was denied it. Can't I ask for it again now that he is financially stable? Especially if i cannot support my self and our 4 children since he wouldn't pay child support? I understand the question will be asked, what makes me think he'll pay spousal support if he refuses to pay child support, but I'm hoping that since by him not paying child support and it crippling me financially, the judge will order him to if requested????? Anyone know if I can seek it now that things have changed?