I've been separated for around 6 years. I have an 11 year old son. My wife and I get along much better than we did when we lived together. And since things have been so smooth, I didn't push for a divorce. And since we co-own a business and have a child, it seemed to me that coasting this way was easier (better). But lately it doesn't feel better. It feels stagnant And I think it is time to get through this and get to a freer and more true place. In addition, I think now that it isn't good for my son to live in this state, who sometimes asks me if I'll consider moving back home. I want to do this lovingly and gently. I still love and care for this woman deeply. I hope we can work together in a positive way towards a very positive outcome. She isn't the easiest person to get along with, and I'm not sure where to begin-- I want to pick the best path.