My friend has been in and out of court for over 10 years...really. Divorce has been finalized, but his ex drags him into court just to torture him. He lost his job, and is living on his uncles couch. He is trying to get his life together, but he is beyond depressed and started to talk about "what's life living for", etc. If you have a friend that starts to say things like this...talk to them. And tell them to see a therapist. To many nightmare stories....