After 17 years if marriage calling it over! Been through physical, then verbal and emotional abuse. Husband is a narcissist and a huge liar. Treated our kids horribly too. During the marriage I lost sight of who I used to be and became secluded and depressed. During this last year we didnt even speak or even look at eachother. He just came home one day and we both agreed he was leaving.. Financially he left nothing for us and I am a housewife so I am not working but I am very close. All I know is that I can breathe now I may not have alot of money right now but I am free to regain all that was taken from my life. Funny thing is I don't miss him I miss the stability and having money all the time for anything we needed. I will survive though!!