My marriage of 8 years took an abrupt turn when I received an email telling me to go to a restaurant about 1 hour north of my town (close to MA border) on a specific night and I would find my wife w/another guy. Long story short, she gave me some excuse why she wouldn't be home that night. I showed up at the restaurant, and saw her walk in. That didn't surprise me. What did was that one of my best friends walked in after her. I saw them start kissing and that was it for me. Pretty sure it was one of her friends who sold her out, she had a conscious and although we never spoke about it, I'm sure it's her. Best part of the story...6 months after this got out, he dumped her, most likely from all the guilt he received. My town is small, and this was major news.