Been married 8 years now separated! We have 2 boys! He had an affair. I left but still find it hard. I'm there for him and he is here for me but when I ask him about our future, he says he likes his space. I feel like my life still revolves around him. I think about him constant. His actions and words don't say the same thing and I'm lost and confused. I'm not ready to let go but at the same time I can't continue like this!!