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Kentuckygirl88

about 1 month ago

Hello. I’ve been separated from my spouse since late April and am currently in the process of getting our divorce final (courts are so slow!). I have two children (girls, ages 3 and 7) who are amazing. I am looking for friendship and support through out this crazy journey and a community who can understand what I’m going through, as I am young and don not have any friends who have children my age or going through a divorce. Looking forward to meeting individuals who can provide support along this path.

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DivorceForce

3 months ago

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Turning the Sh*t of Divorce into Compost for a New Life (by: Lisa Brick)
What if the divorce process could be a crash course in discovering outdated and limiting belief systems and thought patterns about life, love, relationships, family, and money and letting them go forever? Would your pain have less sting and more promise if you could discover what you needed to... Continue reading

DivorceForce

4 months ago

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Spotlight: Tara Eisenhard Talks About Divorce and Positive Outcomes
Divorce can be a positive experience. For most people that is hard to fathom. Tara Eisenhard is one of DivorceForce’s contributors that consistently pushes the positive aspects of divorce – and she encourages and inspires others to see the light. DivorceForce recently spoke with Tara to get her... Continue reading

DivorceForce

4 months ago

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Why Reconcile? (by: Bonnie Simpson)
What follows are not reasons why you should reconcile with your former spouse. A few months ago, my ex-husband called to discuss the possibility of reuniting. My heart animated, pulled the file, and asked, “Did that just happen?” In defense of his humanity, he is not the only man who has made... Continue reading

DivorceForce

4 months ago

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Day 336 (by: Kat Walker Hill)
Over the summer my husband decided he wanted to run a half marathon. It was something on his bucket list and he wanted to accomplish it during his 30th year…before he turned 31. Lucky for him, Disney World was holding a half marathon on his birthday that year. We decided we would make a trip out... Continue reading

DivorceForce

4 months ago

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When A Marriage Ends…(Start Spreading The News) (by: Katie Martin)
The announcement of an engagement is typically made with joy and verve. We don’t think about how to break the news or what people’s reactions will be. We shout about our nuptials from the rooftop and flash our shiny rings. Announcing a divorce is a different beast. In the days that led up to my... Continue reading

DivorceForce

5 months ago

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What You Learn When You Can’t Go Home Again (by: Kate Chapman)
The hot pavement blisters my feet the instant I step out of the car. I always kick my sandals off about an hour into the long ride, and in my hurry to get into the house, often leave them forgotten on the floorboards. The children stream out of the car, noisy and excited, running in and around... Continue reading

DivorceForce

5 months ago

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Why You Should Stop Badmouthing Your Ex (by: Tara Eisenhard)
A favorite pastime for those enduring divorce is to sit around with our besties and Trash The Ex. Badmouthing your ex feels good! The ex-related expletives bring a sense of purpose or confidence. Perhaps the practice offers a sense of release so that one can proceed with a clearer head. Either... Continue reading

Nicolas James Spencer

5 months ago

Self Doubt ( Sling Back to the Dark Place )
Me and my wife would married for a short time, yet the longest relationship I ever had ( to date ). And the strongest I have ever felt towards anyone in my life ( hence the marriage in the first place ).

Now, 4 years after the separate and a few months after I was able to swallow my emotions to ... Continue reading

DivorceForce

5 months ago

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Life After Divorce – Embrace the Change and Build a Fabulous New Life (by: Kerry Porter)
Whether you wanted a divorce or not… well… here you are! You’ve probably had a taste of your new life, made at least a few changes, and started processing what the new you will be like. So, what’s next; what do you want your life to be like? Have you even had time to think about your future, or... Continue reading

DivorceForce

5 months ago

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New Life Events for Divorced People
An optimist will tell you that the post-divorce period is a golden opportunity to reinvent yourself and start over, but starting over can be easier said than done. Midlife Divorce Recovery recommends tackling it in three stages: accept that things are different now, take control of your life and... Continue reading

DivorceForce

5 months ago

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Developing A New Career After Divorce (by: Mandy Walker)
There is inevitably less money after divorce and that means adjusting your lifestyle and/or increasing your income. It can also mean developing a new career after divorce. Wendi was a nurse when she met her husband who was a physician. After their marriage, she helped run the medical practice for... Continue reading

DivorceForce

5 months ago

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He’s Getting Remarried (by: Patty Blue Hayes)
It’s days away from my divorce being final for 3 years but really I feel like the day he drove off was the end. Although as I write that, I self-edit to realize he’d left the marriage even a few years before when he started cheating. So let’s say it’s been a while. Why would his upcoming... Continue reading

DivorceForce

6 months ago

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Friends – Post Divorce: How To Deal With Losing Your Friends (And Making New Ones) (by: Dr. Karen Finn)
There are so many things you lose when you get divorced. Obviously, there’s the marriage, your role as spouse, being with your kids every day and maybe even your home. But there’s one loss that surprises just about everyone – the loss of your friends. They probably won’t all leave in some grand... Continue reading

DivorceForce

6 months ago

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Post Divorce: The Best is in Front of Me (by: Lindsey Light)
I look at my summer to-do list–a standard yellow post-it note on a bright red notebook. It reads: apply for Ph.D., work on book proposal, write an article, and revise some old papers to present at conferences. I chuckle. What an ambitious list. I laugh because only a teacher would have a to-do... Continue reading

DivorceForce

6 months ago

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6 Things I Wish I Knew Then That I Know Now After My Divorce (by: Dr. Anne Brown PhD, RN)
1. Believe in Yourself! Three words that are so powerful they can change any “I can’t into “I can”. When you hear the words “I want a divorce”, there will be times you will say, “I can’t do this”. Divorce is like a marathon you didn’t sign up for and certainly didn’t know the extent of... Continue reading

DivorceForce

6 months ago

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Divorce Dish: Navigating Former In-Laws (by: Abby King)
This month on the Divorce Dish Q&A, Abby King tackles the challenges of dealing with your former in-laws after divorce. She has some great recommendations on various encounters … Smile And Wave Question: My daughter recently divorced and I don’t know how to act towards her ex-husband. We... Continue reading

DivorceForce

6 months ago

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Reuniting With an Ex After Divorce
You may have thought about your old love often during your marriage, or maybe only as your marriage reached its bitter end. You may have found him on Facebook, thought he looked good and imagined the two of you together. But what really happens when you are truly free enough to reconnect? It’s... Continue reading

DivorceForce

7 months ago

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Rear View Mirror (by: Seeking Peace)
Following the divorce and storm of heartbreak, I have learned to set my sails and ride out the storm(s). First, my life revolved around you, my heart was tied to yours, my soul belonged in your hands. I placed my trust and future in your hands, as I believed that you were the safest person I had... Continue reading

DivorceForce

7 months ago

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Some Promises Are Meant To Be Broken (by: Dr. Karen Finn)
Last month my husband (he’s my second) and I (I’m his third wife) celebrated our anniversary. But it was an event that almost didn’t happen because of a promise I made to myself after I divorced. When I got divorced in 2002, I hurt. The pain was so intense that I wasn’t sure I’d survive it. I... Continue reading

DivorceForce

7 months ago

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That Girl (by: Pam Johnson)
That girl… She held her head high in order to hide The emptiness she felt inside. Years of self hatred and self neglect It caught up to her That girl… That girl was trapped in the things of the past The lies she was told at the tender age of seven The man who approached her at the age of 12 The... Continue reading

DivorceForce

7 months ago

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Moving on from Divorce – Overcoming the Unique Problems Men Face (by: Brad Micklin, Esq.)
Emotions, such as pain, fear, and regret, can hold you down after going through a tough divorce. Men often lead a life of invisible suffering after they get divorced. Men are less likely to actively seek help and support from their family or friends. By doing so, they limit themselves and hamper... Continue reading

DivorceForce

7 months ago

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Hope Floats. Marriage Floats, Sometimes. Divorce Can Float. (by: Tara Eisenhard)
In the movie Hope Floats, Harry Connick Jr.’s character states the following: “I know exactly what you meant,” Justin tells Birdie. “The American Dream. You find something you love, then you twist it and torture it… Trying to find a way to make money at it. Spend a lifetime doing that… At the... Continue reading

Privacy

7 months ago

Ex credit affecting my credit score!!! Need advice

Dear wise divorce force the martial debt was divided according to whomever was the primary, per the judge’s signed divorce devree. My ex has four items that are weighing my credit down. I’m disputing debt, but the creditors still want to hold me credit hostage. Needelees to say he and his mistres... Continue reading

DivorceForce

8 months ago

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How to Expand Your Comfort Zone (by: Randi Levin)
We all have them. Comfort zones are the playpen of our limitations. For most of us, we exist within these boundaries only to be challenged throughout our lifetimes to leave them. On a long weekend in South Carolina’s low country, I opened the door to exit my comfort zone only to realize that our... Continue reading

DivorceForce

8 months ago

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Is it Possible to Trust Someone After Experiencing Outright Lies? (by: Teresa Welch)
I had an email this week that touched me, from a man that had been betrayed by his wife for over a year he thought he was going mad, her distance, frequent disappearing, coming home late from work, lack of intimacy, lack of interest in the home, family, him. And just the lack of trying to... Continue reading

DivorceForce

8 months ago

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5 Tips For Surviving A Bad Break-Up (by: Pam Johnson)
Today’s topic is one that is near and dear to my heart. I’ve been wanting to write more on my divorce for a while, but it’s taken me some time to sit down in front of the computer and really be comfortable with sharing details that are so intimate…and now I’m ready! One of the things that I hear... Continue reading

DivorceForce

8 months ago

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Broken Promises: New Beginnings (by: Mary Buten)
Goodbye Note By S Raine I never thought this day would come. I truly thought you were the one. We used to laugh and talk all night. Now we argue, fuss, and fight. All is wrong in things I do. To take the blame is never you. So quick to run when things get rough. Your best excuse, it’s... Continue reading

DivorceForce

8 months ago

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Divorce Dish – Dealing with the New Man or Woman in Your Kid’s Life (by: Abby King)
This month on the Divorce Dish Q&A, Abby King tackles the Ex’s new boy/girlfriend in YOUR kid’s life. Ex’s Girlfriend Crosses The Line. Period Question: My 9-year-old daughter told me that her dads new girlfriend explained to her what a period is. She relayed that once a month you get... Continue reading

DivorceForce

8 months ago

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Crying Days (by: Leslie Shriner)
There will be crying days. That is what we need to tell spouses coming out of a sexual addiction relationship. There will be days when you just get triggered and cry. You will not be able to put your finger on just why all the time. Sometimes you will. Sometimes you will know the reason so... Continue reading

DivorceForce

9 months ago

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8 Tips for Life Post-Divorce (by: Christine Marie)
After the divorce, and after all the dust has settled, you enter a new realm: post-divorce. What this looks like is up to you. Hopefully, it’s a time for rejuvenation of your soul and finding YOU again. It should be a time of feeling happier and free of the stress that plagued you and your... Continue reading

DivorceForce

9 months ago

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On Rebuilding (by: Heather Quinn)
After the initial implosion, life was a flurry of decisions and rebuilding. I moved out and moved on. I wish I could say in linear fashion. I spent the next year adjusting to the new normal of my life, and helping my kids adjust. I took several steps forward and spent months looking inward. I... Continue reading

DivorceForce

9 months ago

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How to Cope with a Lack of Intimacy After Divorce
“When you’re alone, you’re alone,” Bruce Springsteen sang, and that’s exactly what goes on just after a divorce. You suddenly find yourself alone, not just in bed but on the morning walk with the dog, at the dinner table and when you are awakened at night by a thunderstorm. Learning to cope with... Continue reading

Bsm777

9 months ago

new partner
Should I tell the children’s narcissistic father that I am in a serious relationship?

Sosa666

9 months ago

Recovery period
How long time takes to recover after 30 years marriage?

DivorceForce

9 months ago

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Divorce Requires Recovery and Recovery Takes Time (by: Lindsey Light)
I’ve never broken a bone (knock on wood!), but I’ve watched a lot of medical dramas on television, so I feel qualified to talk about it. Once a broken bone occurs, a lot of steps have to be taken to make sure the injured person becomes well again. First, there is a trip to the hospital.... Continue reading

DivorceForce

9 months ago

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Meeting The Ex-Husband’s Girlfriend (Right Where She Is) (by: Katie Martin)
I met my ex-husband’s girlfriend for the first time a few weeks ago at my daughter’s baby shower – a shower that I hosted for 42 of my friends and family. Dinner and a show. No pressure. In the weeks leading up to the shower, I might have overthought the situation. It’s in the ex-wife job... Continue reading

DivorceForce

10 months ago

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The Particular Struggles of Divorcing Without Kids (by: Lisa Arends)
“Just be glad you didn’t have kids,” was the frequent response I received to the news of my divorce. And I was glad. I didn’t have to face telling children about the upsetting and significant changes to their lives. I never had to navigate the uncertain waters of establishing a co-parenting... Continue reading

DivorceForce

10 months ago

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It’s A New Day (by: Teresa Welch)
I realized yesterday, today would have been my 31st Wedding Anniversary, that young vibrant girl all those years ago taking her vows, all of us when we make a commitment don’t do it lightly we want our relationships too last. We never know what fate has in store for us along that road, I wasn’t... Continue reading

DivorceForce

10 months ago

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How to make the most of a long weekend alone without the kids— Divorce Style (by: Laura Lifshitz)
In all truth, ever since splitting from my former husband, the hardest times for me have been holidays…and summer weekends alone. It’s easy to understand why adjusting to sharing holidays has been hard. Thankfully, my ex and I split almost every single holiday day in half since we live close. But... Continue reading

DivorceForce

10 months ago

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For Sale: One Slightly Used Wedding Dress (by: Leslie Shriner)
For Sale……One slightly used wedding dress. I ran into it at the back of the closet today. I didn’t think it would make me cry….. But there it was….all white and beautiful and outdated….. It looked just like it did the day I wore it……but now…. ….it has too many memories to feel safe in my closet.... Continue reading

DivorceForce

10 months ago

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How to Cope With Divorce & the New Girlfriend
Divorce splits your life in two and often your heart with it. You struggle to reinvent yourself as a single person, to heal the wounds and then move on. This takes effort and focus at the best of times, but can become even more complicated when you learn your ex has a new girlfriend.   Changing... Continue reading

SeekingPeace16

10 months ago

random life happening
Life is all about changes!! Honestly, I'm tired of changes. No wait, that isn't true either. Through all the pain and changes in my life, I have a sense of completeness and happiness. It didn't come easy and it didn't happen overnight but yes, some changes are quite good. I'm faced with the reali... Continue reading

rbp33101

10 months ago

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The future is brighter
I'm ready to begin a new chapter in my life. I am a kind loving woman. I'm generous and thoughtful. I give 100% of me. I have a lot of energy and like to work out or play sports. I am also content watching tv at times and snuggling. I'm extremely affectionate and need someone who is the same Look... Continue reading

DivorceForce

10 months ago

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5 Powerful Reasons You MUST Forgive Your Ex (by Dr. Karen Finn)
Forgiveness. It’s a powerful word because it evokes a myriad of thoughts and emotions. Anger about the unfairness of it all. Revenge because they deserve to feel as much pain as you do. Justice because they need to learn that they can’t treat people the way they’ve treated you. Fear... Continue reading

DivorceForce

11 months ago

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Taking Back My Maiden Name After Divorce: Is it the Right Thing? (by: Laura Lifshitz)
Sitting at court waiting for our official divorce decree after our divorce was announced official, I turned to my ex and said, “I’m sorry about the whole last name thing.” “No worries. You don’t have to be sorry. I understand.” When you divorce with kids, it’s not unusual for moms to claim they... Continue reading

DivorceForce

11 months ago

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Things I Learned in My 1st Year of Divorce (by: Derick Turner)
It’s hard to fully put into words the changes that take place over the first year after your divorce. One comparison that seems to fit well is that of riding an old rickety roller coaster. You know it’s going to bring some excitement, but you also know you’re in for some scary moments. You will... Continue reading

DivorceForce

11 months ago

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Spotlight: Christine Mathieu – After 3 Divorces She Has Much to Share on Wealth & Empowerment
If you went through three divorces I am sure you would have a backlog of lessons learned. Meet Christine Mathieu – yep, 3 times divorced. Suffice to say that Christine has gone through ups and downs in her life and she shares some inspirational advice in the interview that follows.  ... Continue reading

DivorceForce

11 months ago

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Day 196 (by: Kat Walker Hill)
Pain is odd and unfair. After the initial pain and shock of the revelation that my marriage was in jeopardy, I was told that the pain would decrease little by little every day. This is not true. Here I am, almost two years since the day that changed my life and I still feel pain, in different... Continue reading

DivorceForce

11 months ago

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The Freedom of Divorce (by: Sinta Ebersohn)
Freedom from the Past brings Freedom to build a Future As we were celebrating Freedom Day in South Africa recently, commemorating the transitions our country and its people have gone through over the past 20 odd years, it made me think about the freedom that the transition of divorce brings.... Continue reading

DivorceForce

11 months ago

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10 Things You Need to Do After Divorce to Make Sure You are Really Done (by: Karen Covy)
By the time the judge pronounces you divorced, you are so glad that the whole ordeal is over that you don’t want to have anything to do with divorce, courts, lawyers, and quite possibly your ex, for a long time! Yet, even though diving into more paperwork and legal mumbo jumbo is the last thing... Continue reading

DivorceForce

12 months ago

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Divorcing a “Jerk” – What I needed My Family and Friends to Know (by: Kerry Porter)
Yes, I know he is a Jerk – but he wasn’t always, and sometimes I mourned the fun we had, the laughter, and the happy times as a family. I was afraid to leave. Please don’t tell me, “I told you so”, or “I shouldn’t have married him”, my kids are here, they are my world and they need to know they... Continue reading

Sosa666

12 months ago

My ex and my daughter

My ex did not have contact with our daughter last 2 years. Now after their meeting on February, they are texting every day. I would like to share myy daughter was very upset before the visit. She knew about his affair, and his future fiance /the fiance is online bride from Philippines, 20 years ... Continue reading

DivorceForce

12 months ago

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Divorce Spring Cleaning – Letting Go of Material Items After a Divorce (by: Jennifer Butler)
Your divorce is final. The dust has settled. You look around at all the things you fought so hard to keep, the possessions that once mattered so much that you never dreamed you could live without them. Except now, when you sit down and really look, you realize they no longer bring you the comfort... Continue reading

DivorceForce

12 months ago

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8 Signs You’re Limiting Yourself After Divorce & How to Stop It (by: Laura Lifshitz)
You’ve gotten the divorce and made it this far, but you’re not really happy. It’s as if you’ve got one huge dark cloud over you and you can’t seem to escape it. Mostly, because you seem to keep getting in your own way. Your life was supposed to evolve and get better, which is why you got a... Continue reading

DivorceForce

12 months ago

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Is It Possible to Keep Hold of Mutual Friends After a Split? (by: Abi)
It’s been nearly 3 years since I split up from my husband and a lot has changed since it all happened. At first I had these ideas of how things would be going forward, but as the time has gone on, my attitude has changed. For example, when we first split up, I insisted on that going forward – at... Continue reading

DivorceForce

about 1 year ago

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Being Divorced Doesn’t Mean You Can’t Celebrate Love on Valentine’s Day (by: Vicki Larson)
Valentine’s Day, a day that can feel great if you’re happily in love and not so great if you aren’t. For the divorced, Valentine’s Day can often be even harder than for never-marrieds because we once had love and the promise of it lasting forever. Now we don’t. Given the amount of “survival” tips... Continue reading

DivorceForce

about 1 year ago

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The Career Move that Helped Her Through Divorce
Divorce may be an ending to marriage, but for many, it signals a new beginning, particularly when it comes to a new career. It happened to me, and it happened to Senior Customer Success Agent, Teresa Rivera, who joined the Worthy family over the holidays. In addition to being a valued member of... Continue reading

DivorceForce

about 1 year ago

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5 Ways You Will Get Through Your Divorce (by: Lisa LaBelle, MSC, ACMHC)
When you think about the “D” word, the emotions of pain, grief, loss, and heartache can quickly come to mind. They say divorce does not kill you, even though it may feel like your heart is breaking. You know what I am talking about if you have experienced divorce in your own life. The good news... Continue reading

DivorceForce

about 1 year ago

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Reconstructing Your Life After Divorce
“The gifts of divorce may take some time to reveal themselves, but there are gifts,” says author and psychotherapist Abby Rodman. Although sorrow, anger, and fear are natural first reactions, in time it occurs to you that you no longer have to deal with being in an unhappy relationship.... Continue reading

DivorceForce

about 1 year ago

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5 Vows to Make With Yourself After Divorce (by: Lisa Arends)
When I received the unexpected text that ended my marriage, I collapsed along with my entire world. In those moments, I had no answers, no solutions, and little hope. I felt gutted, a dry husk discarded after the honeyed insides have been consumed. And then, while my body still remained a... Continue reading

DivorceForce

about 1 year ago

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7 Things You Need After Divorce more than You even Realize (by: Laura Lifshitz)
There are many things you need to make it through a divorce, most of which is courage and tenacity. The process can be long and hellish if you’re unlucky, quick and easy if you’re fortunate. In any event, after a divorce no matter how good or bad the divorce is, there are some things you need... Continue reading

DivorceForce

about 1 year ago

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5 Saving Graces For Divorcing Without Family Support (by: Audrey Cade)
When bad things happen to us, we normally want the comfort and support of the people we love the most. Friends, and especially family, can often help us through life’s toughest times and make us feel encouraged and accepted, even when nothing else seems to be going right. Divorce is no exception.... Continue reading

DivorceForce

about 1 year ago

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What To Do When Life Gets Difficult (by: Sofia O’Hara)
Isn’t it GREAT when everything seems to be working out in MAGICAL ways? It’s just so easy to feel happy and grateful! But what happens when all of a sudden you feel tested by life? What do you do when things start falling apart making you feel powerless? Difficulties and problems become your... Continue reading

Sosa666

about 1 year ago

My daughter is very upset after the divorce
I will try ti keep short story. My ex fiance is 20 years old/ she is online bride from Philippines/.
My ex is 53 years old. Our daughter is 27 years old. She is very hurt from what my ex did it- cheating on past 3 years, having online fiance/they never met face to face/.
Our daughter feels li... Continue reading

DivorceForce

about 1 year ago

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6 Ways to Forgive Yourself for Your Marital Mistakes (by: Laura Lifshitz)
Don’t you love the agony of breakups and divorce? How you sit there and play out all the little mistakes you made? Wondering what you could have done better. Hashing over what you did wrong. Beating yourself up until metaphorically, you’ve got gunshot wounds all over yourself. It’s really hard to... Continue reading

DivorceForce

about 1 year ago

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7 things I don’t believe anymore after my divorce (by: Laura Lifshitz)
I had a lot of ideas about life before my divorce and right after that, I believed to be true. I was capable of changing my views of course, but I had beliefs and thoughts about life that seemed to add up and make sense…before my divorce was final. But after being almost two years officially... Continue reading

DivorceForce

about 1 year ago

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10 Struggles Anybody Who Has Been Divorced Will Understand (by: Lisa Arends)
1) “Getting to Know You” Conversations Can Become Awkward “So, what brought you to Atlanta?” I hate it when I get that question. Because the true answer is, “My ex-husband’s job.” But I don’t always want to go there, especially in a professional setting. So sometimes this perfectly innocuous... Continue reading

Laura5353

about 1 year ago

Suggestions
I dont want a divorce but am in the middle of one so Im trying to find ways to mo e on after 20 years. Make friends, new ttaditions, things I may need to know. Help pkease

DivorceForce

about 1 year ago

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5 Reasons to Get Out on New Year’s Eve (by: Laura Lifshitz)
When I think of New Year’s Eve, I can’t help but think of When Harry Met Sally. True love wins out when finally, the “two friends” give in to their clearly burgeoning feelings for each other, right at the ball drop. It’s pretty much what every hopeless single romantic wants, perhaps with a little... Continue reading

DivorceForce

about 1 year ago

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What Did I See In Him? (by: Tara Eisenhard)
“What did I see in him?” or “What did I see in her?” At the end of a relationship, it’s a common question to ask. Perhaps you heard the story about how my ex-husband used to sit behind me in fourth grade and pull my hair. Throughout middle and high school, he continued to mildly torment me. Once,... Continue reading

DivorceForce

about 1 year ago

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My Reality of the Holidays (by: Allison Scollar)
There are so many adjustments that occur when you get divorced. It’s very unsettling, but one of the most profound changes is the emptiness one feels at holiday time. It’s that time when you’re not with your child. Life, the family unit that you used to know no longer existed and the ordinary... Continue reading

DivorceForce

about 1 year ago

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Feeling Stuck?? Here Are 5 Reasons Why You Can’t Move Forward (by: Jennifer Butler)
After a divorce or breakup, there is a natural period of grief and mourning that I believe everyone must go through in some shape or form. It is a time when you feel stuck, when it seems impossible to live life, and doing even the simplest of things can feel like climbing Mt. Everest. The process... Continue reading

DivorceForce

about 1 year ago

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5 Misconceptions About Divorce (by: Karen Bigman)
Divorce can be the worst experience you go through but it doesn’t have to be. Arm yourself with knowledge and you’re more likely to weather the storm a little better. Often, it’s the fear of the process that makes it worse than the actual event. Here are a few misconceptions I’ve seen along the... Continue reading

DivorceForce

about 1 year ago

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How to Sell Your Engagement Ring & Wedding Band After Divorce (by: Laura Lifshitz)
It was time. Trying to advance my career fast enough to support myself and my daughter after divorce has been challenging, although it is steadily happening and I have put in much work to get here. I went from being a mostly-stay at home mom who was writing at night and teaching part-time while... Continue reading

DivorceForce

about 1 year ago

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Divorce And The Death Of What Might Have Been (by: Kyle Bradford aka “ChopperPapa”)
For years after my divorce, more than a decade ago, I fought grief tooth and nail. My pride wouldn’t allow me to feel, never mind express, sadness. My distorted thinking convinced me that feeling sorrow meant I still had feelings for my ex-wife. I must surely miss her and want her back if I felt... Continue reading

DivorceForce

about 1 year ago

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6 Innovative Ways to Use Journaling for Divorce Recovery (by: Lisa Arends)
Writing can be an extremely powerful tool to promote healing and recovery from divorce. It’s accessible to everyone since the investment of time and money are minimal. There are myriad ways to journal depending upon your goals and your temperament. These six journaling strategies are especially... Continue reading

DivorceForce

about 1 year ago

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Life After Divorce for the Single Mom
Single mothers do double duty when they begin to move on from divorce, continuing to be a mom while learning how to let go of being a wife. Finding a new way of being can seem like an insurmountable challenge, but life after divorce is absolutely possible. It’s not only possible, it can be... Continue reading

DivorceForce

about 1 year ago

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5 Questions to Ask Yourself When You’re Feeling Triggered (by: Lisa Arends)
“Will I ever learn to trust again?” I implored of my dad after receiving the surprise text that my husband had left the marriage and left the state. At that point, I was concerned about learning to trust somebody else after being the victim of horrendous gaslighting and betrayal. It was only... Continue reading

mcducey

over 1 year ago

Modern Romance #45 - Peaceful, Co-parenting Divorce
This is the dream situation, but it takes real people who desire peace and example for their children. https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/modern-love/e/48341104?autoplay=true

DivorceForce

over 1 year ago

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It’s Really Over: 7 Steps Towards Acceptance (by: Betty Russell)
We don’t have to accept everything that happens to us. Sometimes we need to resist, make a change, or fight for what we believe. But when it comes to the end of a relationship—acceptance is really the only good option. Anything else is torture, and ultimately prevents life from moving on. I’ve... Continue reading

DivorceWithDignity

over 1 year ago

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Download a free copy of our ebook: How to Go Through a Divorce with Dignity
Hello, Divorce Force! We at Divorce with Dignity wanted to share a free ebook with you. It is available for download on our website. Simply visit: www.dwdignity.com, scroll halfway down the page and submit for your free download. The ebook is full of valuable information regarding the benefits of... Continue reading

DivorceForce

over 1 year ago

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4 Factors in Letting Go (by: Tara Eisenhard)
A healthy divorce process involves letting go of the past. As you move forward and create a new normal for yourself and your family, you have to let go of your marriage. You have to let go of the person you used to be. You have to let go of the dreams you held for a future that is no longer a... Continue reading

BonnieSimpson

over 1 year ago

Single and Focused
I have a confession. I was never good at being blue. Don't hang up. What I mean is I fought to be positive in the midst of the hell I was going through. So much so, that I was made aware I was (or thought to be) self-righteous and prideful. I was guarding my heart. I acted upon the right to guar... Continue reading

DivorceForce

over 1 year ago

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Effective ways of Splitting Time with the Kids on Halloween
Holidays can be the hardest after a divorce. Even if you’ve stoically accustomed yourself to those weeks or weekends away from your kids, you may wilt at the thought of a childless holiday, especially a kid-centric event like Halloween. If your relationship with your ex is hostile, it’s probably... Continue reading

DivorceForce

over 1 year ago

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5 Ways to Take Care of Yourself and Make Your Life Easier (by: Vicki Larson)
1) Take care of yourself: Even the most loving, respectful divorces — and many people don’t experience that — are emotionally challenging. In an attempt to feel better, some people may respond in unhealthy ways — drinking too much alcohol, eating a pint of ice cream every night in front of the... Continue reading

Mary janet James

over 1 year ago

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Tired of been alone

wish I could find a sincere loving God fearing romantic man that will make me happy again I want to feel loved again

DivorceForce

over 1 year ago

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I’m Trying to get over the Second Wedding Blues. Here’s Why . . . (by: Erin Silver)
I’m getting married for the second time and to tell you the truth, I’ve been treating it like a second wedding. When I say a second wedding, I probably mean second-class wedding. “I want a simple dress. It’s a second wedding,” I told the sales lady when shopping for a gown. “I don’t need a shower... Continue reading

DivorceForce

over 1 year ago

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9 New Traditions to Make in Your Life After Divorce (by: Laura Lifshitz)
If you’re recently divorced or just divorced, it’s sort of a baptism or conversion by fire. Suddenly you’re single. Suddenly perhaps, you’re raising children alone. Suddenly, your money is gone…you’re back in the workforce… Whatever the case may be, divorce brings up sudden, and in many ways,... Continue reading

Dean11

over 1 year ago

Bricks and mortar

Divorce is just great. And popular. Especially nowadays. Marriage is just an extension of dating now. I know I am really enjoying being 46 and having to start building a new wall all over again....if I can even find any bricks...as opposed to repairing and strengthening the one I had. I'm ve... Continue reading

DivorceForce

over 1 year ago

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Why Saying Goodbye Can Mean Saying Hello To A Better Start (by: Laura Lifshitz)
Saying goodbye is probably the most painful thing, ever. It’s the worst word to ever utter. It’s right up there neck and neck with, “I don’t love you” or even worse: Telling someone you love him or her…and that person not saying I love you back. Goodbye is final. It’s depressing. It’s... Continue reading

Swimming

over 1 year ago

Enjoy life
Looking for someone to enjoy life with! Love going out and staying home. Looking for friendship first

LAfifty

over 1 year ago

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Why are you crying? Each Tear That Falls Is A Dream Deferred

Why are you crying? Were you Left a bit ago but are still having weep-fests and don’t know why? There is an answer. It came to me after a few hundred buckets had been filled.

Each tear that falls, is a dream deferred.

This means that though you think those are buckets of break up tears, there... Continue reading

LAfifty

over 1 year ago

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A Larabar Is Not A Lunch

As much as I hate to admit it, a Larabar is not a lunch. Are you having this same problem? A lot of women are. All of the sudden, their first task at the grocery store is to see if the ten for ten dollar Larabar deal is happening. Then they elbow their way through all the other single women (I h... Continue reading

LAfifty

over 1 year ago

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“Future Husband” Planning: Is Your New Life Really Your Own?

Is your New Life Really Your Own?

Hmmm, I am wondering if somewhere in the back off your mind, when you are moving into the new abode, you are secretly thinking of it as a “temporary home” while you look for Future Husband. If you are doing this, guess what I suggest? It’s time to clean out t... Continue reading

LAfifty

over 1 year ago

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Dancing With….Your Ex?
Dancing with the stars just announced their new dancers and it got me to thinking about how long I continued dancing with my Ex.

Even after he walked out, there were months and months where we had to continue our communication in some way over the myriad of issues a big split entails.

Much like... Continue reading

LAfifty

over 1 year ago

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Guess What Day It Is? Your Heyday!
Do you reminisce about your “heydays?” Back when you were stronger, more athletic, practiced the piano 8 hours a day, had visible eyebrows, stuff like that. This seems like a destructive habit to me. We all need to turn our thoughts around and start acting and thinking like we are in the midst o... Continue reading

LAfifty

over 1 year ago

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Apply For Your Best Job Ever – Life Remaker

Dear CEO, I am applying for the best job ever – Life Remaker. I couldn’t help but see your ad – it seems women everywhere are going through the same thing. When they turn 50, husbands leave them for younger women in droves. I was unexpectedly hit with this Life Remaker task several years ago. I... Continue reading

DivorceForce

over 1 year ago

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How to Stop Feeling Sorry For Yourself After Divorce (by: Lisa Arends)
I threw myself quite the pity party after my ex-husband cheated and then left the marriage. The theme of the shindig was simple – innocent woman victimized by a malicious husband. I resisted mailing out invitations, yet I encouraged others to attend by sharing the sordid details of what he did to... Continue reading

DivorceForce

over 1 year ago

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5 Things You Should Not Be Ashamed to Do During and After Divorce (by: Laura Lifshitz)
Imagine a huge knotted ball of yarn in front of you. Imagine you’re trying to untangle each knot. Have you ever done that? Untangled a gold chain? A knot in your hair? Your shoelace? Your ball of yarn? Can you recall the feeling of frustration and annoyance, as every time you thought you had the... Continue reading

DivorceForce

over 1 year ago

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Middle Age and Divorcing (by: “AJ” aka Cocoa Mommy)
Being middle aged and divorcing is not an insurmountable hurdle. I will say divorcing over the age of 40 felt odd. The age of 40 is a milestone and most celebrate in a big way to mark the occasion. Shortly, after turning 40 I was separated and moved. If I had a crystal ball, I envisioned turning... Continue reading

DivorceForce

over 1 year ago

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Rate Your Divorce Skills: Take This Quiz (by: Victoria McCooey)
How well are you divorcing? Is it taking a toll on you physically? Emotionally? Financially? How are you handling communication with your ex-spouse? And what about co-parenting? How’s that going? And your lawyer…what’s that relationship like? Are your bills higher than you think they should be?... Continue reading

DivorceForce

over 1 year ago

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Is the Time Spent In a “Failed” Marriage Wasted? (by: Lisa Arends)
“I’ve wasted half my life,” I wailed to my friend from my spot curled up against the doorframe on her checkered kitchen floor. She turned from loading the dishwasher, “Don’t ever say that. Nothing is ever a waste.” At that time, I certainly didn’t agree with her. After all, I had just realized... Continue reading

DivorceForce

over 1 year ago

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10 Questions to Ask Yourself When Your Ex Wants to Be Friends (by: Lisa Arends)
“I want us to be friends.” This little sentence shows up on your phone alongside your ex’s name. It’s a simple sentence, yet the implications and possible repercussions are anything but straightforward. You start to reply. Then you reconsider and delete your initial response. What should you say?... Continue reading

DivorceForce

over 1 year ago

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5 Reasons it may be Wonderful Your Spouse Left You (by: Laura Lifshitz)
I personally wanted my divorce and so did my ex. But not everyone enters into divorce “wanting” the marriage to be over. Sometimes, a person is left even though he or she really still wants to be married still, and my heart always goes out to someone that didn’t want a divorce but was handed one... Continue reading

Butterfly1980

over 1 year ago

Life
Trying to look on the positive side life has to offer.

GAB0033

over 1 year ago

Moving to a new chapter

Be grateful for all things .

Deniece

over 1 year ago

Curious E
Getting ready to file for divorce

Sharlee

over 1 year ago

Moving Forward!

Just trying to start a new life, make new friends and hopefully find a my last love!

JustMe38

over 1 year ago

Alone
How to be ok with being alone

DivorceForce

over 1 year ago

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Men Will Lose Couple Friends in a Divorce Over 50 (by: Barry Gold)
Getting divorced is guaranteed to cause pain. It hurts to realize your plan for the future won’t come true. It hurts to realize your spouse is not who you thought he or she was (and maybe you aren’t, either). It hurts to leave your family home and to divide the possessions you shared there. Much... Continue reading

rschoor

over 1 year ago

can't breath
Can stop running endless loops in my head. I've spent two years building my world back up but I can't share it with you. I did this for us but I can't seem to let you go. I just want to feel safe and wanted again. Can anyone help with this!?!?

DivorceForce

over 1 year ago

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Yes, Life does get Better After Divorce (by: Vicki Larson)
“The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong at the broken places,” Ernest Hemingway once wrote. I don’t think he was talking about divorce, but it’s good to quote for anyone going through a divorce right now. You, too, will be strong at the broken places. You just don’t know it yet.... Continue reading

LadyRia

over 1 year ago

Divorced
RECENTLY DIVORCED

DivorceForce

over 1 year ago

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How I Got Back Up When Divorce Knocked Me Down (by: Martha Bodyfelt)
Divorce can knock even the most stable of us off our feet—I can vouch for this as it happened to me. I remember thinking that I had it all and knew where my life was going and that my husband and I had a bright future ahead of us—together. That was until my marriage failed. Everything I had known... Continue reading

Darlingchick

over 1 year ago

Starting fresh
Trying something new

DivorceForce

over 1 year ago

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The Number 1 Hardest Thing About Divorce and Hint, It is Not The Finances (by: Laura Lifshitz)
Let’s face it. Financial stress can be a key factor in delaying divorce. People are afraid to split due to financial woes. People are delaying the divorce because someone doesn’t want to sign the papers over a low alimony number…whatever the case may be, finances are indeed a real hardship and... Continue reading

MIRACLE66

over 1 year ago

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EXTRAORDINARY

CREATING A NEW TO A SIMPLE WAY TO ENJOY LIFE.. KARMA.. BALANCE..NO FEAR

jenifer03

over 1 year ago

Baby steps
Went to 2 movies all by myself over the last 2 weeks. 1st King Arthur - yummmmm !!!! and Friday Furious 8 - also yummmm !!! First time I have ever done anything like that. I'm going to work up to going to popular movies when the 1st come out instead of waiting weeks(ya know so basically I have th... Continue reading

Italia3878

over 1 year ago

What to do
I'm feeling lost as my wife and I are heading for a divorce. I do feel she is confussed and doesn't know what she wants as her family is getting in the middle of everything and a guy friend of my wife is taking advantage.

Rockcrusher6419

over 1 year ago

Lets enjoy life
Life is good, lets make it better.

Firstimer

over 1 year ago

Interested in knowing more about this site If you have good info on this please inform me on it
Just looking right now. Not sure about this site

NikkiJo

over 1 year ago

Heartbreaking

Confusion..... I'm so hurt that I'm going with this divorce because of how I feel about this man. There are some things I won't put up with like his daily drinking and him putting his hands on me. I feel like the people around me don't understand that my feelings for him just don't disappear and ... Continue reading

ughness

over 1 year ago

having hard time moving on

We have 3 young sons .... 2 weeks after I left house someone moved in with him ! I'm stuck living with my mom and he has his girlfriend in the house we had . I hate this !

LoneDragon

over 1 year ago

Where to start

Where do single/divorced people go to get together socially?

Laura30

over 1 year ago

Dating Issues

How dose one start over.....

Pennys

over 1 year ago

Support groups
Just saw this site and was wondering if there are any support groups in the Brainerd lakes, Minnesota, area?

ABlair

over 1 year ago

How to let go and help kids get through
I'm a mother of three teenagers and just recently divorced. I was in a alcoholic marriage for fourteen years. It has worsened sense we let him. The kids do not want to be around him but i want them to have a dad. I think in some crazy way i still love him. It does not help that it hurts to know h... Continue reading

Transformer

over 1 year ago

MtF Transgender
Looking for friends but I'm a little, shall we say " different"!

DivorceForce

over 1 year ago

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Able and Willing (by: Derick Turner)
I was recently studying, listening to an audio presentation on goal setting and the power of positivity, when the speaker commented that we can achieve any goal if we are Able and Willing. It struck me odd at first as most my life I have heard the term “Willing and Able” but this was reversed. I... Continue reading

Winterandfall

over 1 year ago

Thought for the day
Why is dating after divorced so hard any thoughts?

Ktucker

over 1 year ago

Looking for news friend or girlfriend

Trying to move on in my life

BigPapa32

over 1 year ago

Need Sleep
Sleep

dpostertag

over 1 year ago

Life after divorce

We filed our divorce. All of the friends I had were her friends, I lost them all. I have no one here to talk to or hang out with. Don't really want to join the bar scene. Any suggestions?

Annie7767

over 1 year ago

Dating
Being single

JackieL

over 1 year ago

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Looking to create lifelong friendships!
Hi everyone! I've been divorced for almost 6yrs but still ironing out wrinkle in my divorce settlement. I wish I'd found this site 6 yrs ago when I so desperately needed the support and friendship through what was an isolating and scary divorce. I'm still up for building a strong, supportive and ... Continue reading

Melissa07

over 1 year ago

scared..
My husband told me he is moving out tomorrow and I am so scared to be alone, our marriage is over because he is severely depressed and doesn't want help. I feel lost and scared, I know I can't do anything for him and that's what breaks my heart, I don't know what to do without my best friend.

rach01

over 1 year ago

🙃
Just meeting new people

Ogre99

over 1 year ago

Lonely

Why should she get to be happy with someone while I'm alone and miserable. It doesn't seem fair

elektra3939

over 1 year ago

Joined for new friends and support
Just saying "hi"

REDREDRED

over 1 year ago

Question

My children are grown( 18 and 22) ... my house sold today... divorced after 25 years ... what now? I'm sort of lost with what to do with my time....

DivorceForce

over 1 year ago

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4 Reasons the Toxic Ex Doesn’t Want to Let Go (by: Christine Marie)
It’s been six years since my marriage broke up and my ex still remains difficult to co-parent with. In fact, it is nearly impossible to make changes in schedules due to his constant need for control. Our marriage lasted way longer than it should have and after many attempts of “fixing it,” I... Continue reading

Dogmia

over 1 year ago

Life

Bored. life is best when time is not a factor

stell001

over 1 year ago

Building trust
Meeting people

Annini033

over 1 year ago

Just sharing

Single mom divorced 3 years 3 sons 4, 10, 17 I really have no support system my ex pays no support barely sees them I never have a break I work full time in the city my family is unsupportive I just feel so alone and depressed and like I'm loosing my mind

Lonelyinvegas

over 1 year ago

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Single dad looking for a companion

Looking for friendships and a relationship

ScottyG

over 1 year ago

Timing

When is the right time to start looking for new relationships

Edenagent

over 1 year ago

Legal eagle
After my D. My only thought to marriage relied on my image to being loved and all its intentions were deceit. Male change was most of the decrees unfaithfullness to care about my sacrifice to open habit. Honesty is not just crucial it is legal to define actions as probable and negotiable.

dwade3

over 1 year ago

My website

Define Happiness
A Revelation of Love! When the idea of discussing “Happiness” first appeared in my mind’s eye the initial intent was to reveal it as another benefit of meditation. A revelation of the truth of Love, and specifically self love.  As usually occurs, the content took on a life of its own. I meditated... Continue reading

MissySalmon

over 1 year ago

Feels like high school
How to date with young children who are in sports.

AnnieJoePhil

over 1 year ago

Can't move forward
My husband divorced me almost a year ago and I am unbelievably still stuck! He started a company before we divorced and we work closely together. I have to act all day like I'm cool with everything and I'm in torture everyday. I am in the process of finally leaving but I am not excited at all. I ... Continue reading

SingleAtFortyFive

over 1 year ago

Stuck in the processing
I'm working so hard at avoiding the pain of processing my divorce. I kicked him out 7 months ago and the divorce has been final for 4 months. He has left the state and moved as far away as he could without leaving the county. We have a grown child who is on his own and our youngest just gradua... Continue reading

Redlegmsg66

over 1 year ago

Hate
I hate my ex wife. All she does is lie about everything even when he truth is right in her face

DivorceForce

over 1 year ago

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The Opposite of Love (by: Colleen LeMaire)
Opposites. We learn this concept in kindergarten. The opposite of up is down, the opposite of left is right, and the opposite of forwards is backwards. What if I asked you about love. What is the opposite of love? For most, hate is what comes to mind. Seems to make sense, the opposite of like is... Continue reading

astap9

over 1 year ago

Looking for friendships
Life

DivorceForce

over 1 year ago

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I’ve Thrived As A Divorced Single Mom, But Now I’m Engaged (by: Erin Silver)
I’ve spent the last four years trying to be a champion for divorced single moms. I’ve written about my heartache and pain, how tough it can be to raise kids, co-parent and date, but also how important it is to persevere. If I could do it, anyone could. I was even in the middle of writing a memoir... Continue reading

Melgal

over 1 year ago

Mixed emotions

Some days (most days) I get by just fine, then there are days like today. The walls seem to close in on me.

bitterdad

over 1 year ago

Just need to unload
I spend most days feeling pretty ok, but the loneliness gets to me. We've been separated for about a year and 8 months and divorced for about a year and 2 months.

I have a serious girlfriend now who I love dearly. She has no kids but she's just about perfect in every way and we connect in way... Continue reading

Hschomms

over 1 year ago

Just sad
I've been having a lot of good days lately. And then bam! Out of the blue, I'm just sad. I absolutely hate the roller coaster of emotions. I just want to be really, truly happy again.

DivorceForce

over 1 year ago

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10 Ways to Show Appreciation to Your Ex for being a Good Dad this Fathers Day (by: Laura Lifshitz)
Father’s Day is almost here, but you’re not living with the father of your child/children anymore. If your kids are older, they can certainly figure out a way to tell dad how much they love him, but for those of you with younger children…isn’t it up to you to do something? Sure, a stepmother or... Continue reading

jruiz2249

over 1 year ago

confused
I'm getting a divorced moved out in January. I visit my son and exwife a couple times a month. I feel confused and lonely. Did I make the right decision? I miss best friend (exwife). We are terrible together but I miss her dearly. Is this because I'm lonely or did I make a mistake? We ended in go... Continue reading

BKchacha

over 1 year ago

lost friends
Has anyone else lost a lot of friendships on top of the marriage? It hurts...

LongIsland

over 1 year ago

Long Island Divorce Support Group Meet
Just curious is there's anyone on LI that is interested in meeting as a group? There are some support groups out their you pay for and run a course but I'm thinking something outside of a paid thing and super casual. Just to hear other peoples stories and maybe share your own. Meet somewhere s... Continue reading

shortnsassy247

over 1 year ago

Stay at home Mom to getting a job?
I have been a stay at home Mom most of my marriage. The divorce was final in March and now I am worried about providing for my children. I get child support but within two years I have to get a job. I have little skill set. I have a 16 year old, almost a 13 year old and my youngest will be 6 this... Continue reading

Hschomms

over 1 year ago

Hurt, confused, alone

I'm so shell shocked right now. I could use a friend to talk to about this situation. Here's where I'm at:
Over a month ago my husband and I went furniture shopping and ordered all new furniture that we picked out together. Fast forward to yesterday. I called to check on the status of the order... Continue reading

Amarilis

over 1 year ago

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Learning how to trust again

Being Happy

Amarilis

over 1 year ago

Learning how to trust
Be Happy

LongIsland

over 1 year ago

Looking for support of any kind
Hi All, just joining and really need this. I’m in the middle of a divorce, I separated/moved out a few months ago. I know most people are hurt and struggling because they didn’t want the divorce and their partner left them but I was the one who left yet am hurting pretty good. I know I made th... Continue reading

DivorceForce

over 1 year ago

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Sexual Relief After Divorce (by: Anonymous)
It’s official. You’re divorced. Everyone gives you the same advice—some of which you can toss and some of it you must keep. During your separation, people will tell you to take it day by day. Find hobbies to keep your mind busy as you negotiate the process. Exercise and take good care of your... Continue reading

Beachbum

over 1 year ago

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Living life to the fullest
Well good morning, yall!

slepdprivd

over 1 year ago

divorced for over a year from lying cheating wife.
it's been over a year. since the divorce had been final. but to this day. I year her voice, see her face. speak to her...... I don't see the mother of my children..... I see a wretched, lying, worthless whore. today was so bad I got the shakes and one of my daughters saw it.
I refuse to ta... Continue reading

Janice123

over 1 year ago

Moving on
I am having a very hard time moving on.

Jetsgirl1121

over 1 year ago

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Lost

How do I let go of my ex husband after 26 years so that we are able to be friends?

DivorceForce

over 1 year ago

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How to Overcome False Divorce Expectations (by: Laura Bonarrigo)
When someone enters into divorce, they have a lot of hope: hope that it won’t be as bad as other people’s fights, hope that it won’t cost a lot of money or be really acrimonious. They hope the kids will talk with them at the end of the fight, and that they’ll still have some money left over after... Continue reading

DSTindy

over 1 year ago

Weak Moment
Just having a moment.. i dont have them often, just every now and again

DivorceForce

over 1 year ago

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5 Things You Don’t Understand About Divorce Until You’ve Lived Through It (by: Lisa Arends)
I thought I knew about divorce. When I was in elementary school, I weathered my own parents’ divorce, observing their reactions from the sidelines. I felt the loss, the change in family structure. I experienced the strange vacancies of a split – the blank spots on the walls where my dad’s... Continue reading

Pclinester

over 1 year ago

Blue
Really struggling feeling blue today need to talk to someone who understands

Rickers

almost 2 years ago

New to being single with a child.

Looking for friends.

DivorceForce

almost 2 years ago

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A New Career After Divorce: Where Do I Start? (by: Lisa LaBelle, MSC, ACMHC)
Are you newly divorced, or have you been divorced for several years? Maybe you are a single parent who recently became an empty-nester. In any case, you’ll want to take time to reflect, ponder and consider possible career options that will fit this new chapter in your life. So where do you start?... Continue reading

DivorceForce

almost 2 years ago

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Mother’s Day and Father’s Day: Where Do We Fit In? (by: Colleen LeMaire)
Mother’s Day has recently come and gone. For many stepmoms, the day serves as a painful reminder that despite all that we do for our stepkids, we are not the Mom. It is a day devoted to recognizing and commending the women that sacrifice, provide and raise their kids in a loving home. Stepparents... Continue reading

Dreiling35

almost 2 years ago

Lost
My wife woke up 2 weeks ago and said she didn't want this marriage anymore and she moved out. 14 year marriage. We have 2 boys that are hurting right now and i don't know what to tell them when im hurting too. She filed the paper work on Friday.

UnapologeticallyPam

almost 2 years ago

Worthy of Love, Again.
Three and a half years ago, I never would've seen myself here. I couldn't see past my divorce/separation. I could only live day by day, I could only live to survive. It wasn't really living, and that's okay. It was necessary to survive at the time. But, through that, I learned that I am much stro... Continue reading

Imready

almost 2 years ago

Dating

Should I be in a hurry to date?

Believer917

almost 2 years ago

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Ready for a New Adventure

"Laugh and the world laughs with you. Cry and you cry alone. "

Brenda16

almost 2 years ago

Starting over
How do you begin to start over

DivorceForce

almost 2 years ago

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6 Reasons Why Divorce Brings Out the Worst In Us (by: Chris Armstrong)
Divorce can be a significant and blind-sided gut punch or the thing that we’ve been wanting and anticipating for the last several years. In either case, the person we become as our marriage becomes kapoot can be the anti-Christ’s worst born. My last client, let’s call her Angela to keep from... Continue reading

DivorceForce

almost 2 years ago

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My Journey to Buying a House as a Divorced, Single Mama (by: Lindsey Light)
A couple of months ago, I got the wild notion to sell my condo. I blame 2017. I made it my New Year’s goal to challenge myself and step out of my comfort zone, and, boy, have I followed through. Anyway, back to the condo. I love our little condo. It has two bedrooms, one and a half baths, and I... Continue reading

Simplyfree

almost 2 years ago

What to do?
I have been separated 2 years and got my divorce this week. Still unsure about the whole dating thing and not sure what to do with myself....30 years of having not real control over my circumstances and now I am in complete control and can't seem to stick to any decisions....I'm all over the plac... Continue reading

Police

almost 2 years ago

Hurt
Getting over someone and a divorce I didn't want

DivorceForce

almost 2 years ago

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Child Seeks Husband For Mom: Must Have Nice Kids (by: Laura Lifshitz)
Dating or the idea of me getting remarried is not something I ever talk about with my six-year-old child. She’s never seen me with someone special, so it’s not something that would even come up in everyday conversation, besides when she’s incorrectly assuming that any guy who speaks to me might... Continue reading

Elizabeths

almost 2 years ago

Confused
How do i deal with life after a divorce

DivorceForce

almost 2 years ago

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11 Ways Your Divorce Makes You Better Than Before (by: Lisa Arends)
I don’t think anyone ever responds to the childhood question, “What do you want to be when you grow up?” with “Divorced.” Yet, for many of us, the end of a marriage does become part of our life story. I know I don’t have to point out the downsides of divorce to you; after all, they have a way of... Continue reading

MsEP66

almost 2 years ago

New here
Has anyone tried the new happy hour saloon off of Green River?

DivorceForce

almost 2 years ago

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The Real Reason for My Peaceful Divorce (by: Tara Eisenhard)
My ex and I had a peaceful divorce; one full of cooperation, communication, and compassion. It cost less than $400 and took only as much time as the state required. When I refer to my experience, some people dismiss me. After all, I’m the exception, not the norm. Most divorces are ugly and... Continue reading

DivorceForce

almost 2 years ago

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From Spring ‘Fever’ to Summer Lovin’: Beating the Divorce Blues (by: Chris Armstrong)
If you were to go to Google or Bing and type in the words ‘divorce month’, you would find dozens of articles that speak to January being the most common month for couples to divorce. This makes sense if you think about post-New Year’s resolutions, a very common one of which is to find true... Continue reading

MarthaB

almost 2 years ago

Compass

Tired of feeling lost? Help is here!
Divorce is tough for many reasons. Not only are we dealing with the emotions and logistics and finances, but after the dust has settled, we may feel like our life's plans have changed direction. The life you planned and your vision of the future may disappear, leaving you with a feeling of not kn... Continue reading

Corey511

almost 2 years ago

Lost
I am so lost🙁. And confused,tired and wore out🙁

DivorceForce

almost 2 years ago

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How to Stop Playing the “Gotcha Game” (by: Susie and Otto Collins)
Have you ever found yourself saying cutting, sarcastic remarks to your partner after being blindsided by hurtful words or actions? If so, you’re not alone. It can be the most natural thing in the world to automatically come back with zinger words or actions to try to defend yourself or get back... Continue reading

candice

almost 2 years ago

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open letter to my ex
I realize, that as a wife, I failed, miserably. Reflecting back, I was so involved in my own struggles. I was so concerned with the wrong things. I never understood what it meant to be supportive to someone with depression. I never understood it all. I felt the drowning feeling. Don’t get me w... Continue reading

Asha

almost 2 years ago

Moving on and not looking back

I've found it hard to move on from my ex-husband.. just when I think I am ready to move on, somehow he appears back in the picture whether it be a text message or phone call, I keep telling myself I have to cut ties or I will never be able to move on....how can some just cut ties and never look b... Continue reading

DivorceForce

almost 2 years ago

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The day I realised I am not superwoman… (by: Joanne Michelle)
As a single mum, we want to make sure our children have love in their hearts, as we nurture them with everything we have and more. We make sure they don’t miss out and if that means we do, it doesn’t matter, because our children are our life. But what happens when you realise you can’t give them... Continue reading

JustUs2

almost 2 years ago

He wants out
My husband and I were married for 3 years going on 4 in a few months, he told me a month ago he wanted out, I'm hurt, I feel betrayed, we had our first child together last year and now I'll be a single mom. How do you just carry on, when life changes so suddenly on you? It's like someone dropped... Continue reading

DivorceForce

almost 2 years ago

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11 Ways to Take the Emotion Out of Dealing With a Difficult Ex (by: Lisa Arends)
Even though my ex husband left my left, he left his impact behind in the form of tens of thousands of dollars of debt that fell on me to repay. Every month when I had to make those payments, I felt like all of the emotional progress I had made was washed away. I would grow angry, fearful and... Continue reading

VesJak

almost 2 years ago

Seeking a partner
Don't want to be lonely

DivorceForce

almost 2 years ago

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7 Steps to Self Growth After Divorce (by: Tara Eisenhard)
Divorce will rip away much of what you knew to be safe, true and/or comfortable. Indeed, it can cause an all-out identity crisis as your world spins out of control and you begin to question multiple aspects of your life. But, have faith: “Something will grow from all of this, and it will be you.”... Continue reading

DivorceForce

almost 2 years ago

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How To Get Closure When Your Ex Won’t Give It To You… (by: Joanne Michelle)
Ever heard the line: It’s not you it’s me?   When a relationship ends, do we need closure? The validation to understand what happened? Closure is something everyone wants. Right? We want the validation and understanding. But what happens if your ex won’t give that to you? So perhaps you find... Continue reading

Markzlex

almost 2 years ago

Hello

Trying to find happiness for myself

DivorceForce

almost 2 years ago

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Spotlight : Karen McMahon, Journey Beyond Divorce
Are you ready to take a journey beyond your divorce? This is exactly what Karen does by assisting men and women struggling with broken relationships and divorce to find clarity, calm and healing as they identify their desires and rebuild their lives. DivorceForce had the opportunity to interview... Continue reading

Divorce1

almost 2 years ago

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Try it, you'll like it.
Hi I'm new here so please be gentle. You can always eight one three, four one seven, three zero six three Me.

DivorceForce

almost 2 years ago

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Divorcing a Lifestyle (by: Patty Blue Hayes)
No one purchased the blue diamond drop earrings I’d placed in a consignment shop for two years. They were a gift from my husband for my forty-fifth birthday. Just fourteen months before I caught him cheating and he said he was done with the marriage. He had less than twenty dollars in the bank... Continue reading

Stickers

almost 2 years ago

New friends
How do you meet new people after being married for over 20 yrs? I'm in need of some new friends.

Asha

almost 2 years ago

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Learning to be by myself

How long does it take to be happy with being single? I've been divorced since October 2016 and it's still rough as ever

DivorceForce

almost 2 years ago

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3 Bullshit Lies I Had To Let Go Of In Order To Be Happier (by: Steve Roy)
Being stuck in a rut sucks. Especially when that rut lasts for more than a decade. My story is not an uncommon one and sadly is most likely what the majority of people live on a daily basis. It’s the story of being feeling trapped in a life you never thought you’d have. Childhood Dreams Growing... Continue reading

DivorceForce

almost 2 years ago

Rings

What Do You Do with the Relics of Your Wedding After Divorce? Audrey cade (by: Audrey Cade)
So much thought goes into preparing for a marriage and a wedding day. Invitations are sent, a venue booked, flowers ordered, and decorations arranged to set the stage for one of the most significant events of a woman’s life. Long after the exchanging of vows, most of us hold on to cherished... Continue reading

DivorceForce

almost 2 years ago

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Finding Your Way Through Your Loss (by: Ali Wilks)
I have been a member of DivorceForce for a few months, offering insights, encouragement, and support for many members going through, and starting to come out the other side of, divorce. I write this because I saw the pronounced difficulties that the holidays brought in December. We are coming up... Continue reading

DivorceForce

almost 2 years ago

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Spring Cleaning: Clearing Your Ex Out of Your Life (by: Tara Eisenhard)
This time of year, the Earth is bringing forth a new season. Green growth is peeking out of the brown landscape. The sun is shining longer than it was a few months ago. Birds are singing. And people are opening their windows for fresh air while they engage in the annual chore of Spring Cleaning.... Continue reading

brokenhearted2230

almost 2 years ago

Broken-hearted

So after 7 years of marriage 5 kids two months pregnant he decides that he has been in love with me for a very long time and feels nothing for me. I didn't see this coming at all, and I am devastated.

Enabella

almost 2 years ago

New Life After Divorce..
I am divorce for 6 months now, before that separated for over a year period and see if things can turn out right for the sake of my kids but it did not so decided to divorce and start my new life.. just want to know how long does it take a person to heal inner pain suffered from this effect and a... Continue reading

LaModa

almost 2 years ago

Love traveling

Travel Buddy

Kmcclove

almost 2 years ago

What happens during and after court hearing

Divorce court date set

Rtw1971

almost 2 years ago

The next chapter begins

The opportunity to go on a fun date with?

olneyresearch

almost 2 years ago

nice
I just need a friend.

Dustin

almost 2 years ago

need advice
I didn't even know there was any problem in my marriage we had 10 month old baby girl I was on top of the world....Then I get told by my wife that she wants a divorce....We lost 2 babies before that and now she wants a divorce. Just blew me away and now 6 months later I still think about my ex an... Continue reading

tboneou812

almost 2 years ago

Divorce
How to move on

Mikenugent

almost 2 years ago

My daughter
My ex has moved 100s of miles away from took my daughter away without any notice to me and I feel she is in a unsafe environment due to what I have seen from the people she has moved in what can I do for my daughter

Lostdad

almost 2 years ago

separation & divorce is not fare for men
How do you make things far with your cheating wife in a separation agreement & divorce when she want to destroy you. She has used the kids to get what she want now she has everything and I have nothing. Living with my mother. She's from a wealthy family and I'm not.

DivorceForce

almost 2 years ago

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Spotlight: Barry Gold Speaks Out on “Di-Curious” and “Gray Divorce”
Gray Divorce is growing and in some ways has its own unique set of challenges (along with all the other challenges that go with non-gray divorces). DivorceForce had the pleasure to speak to Barry Gold, a Gray Divorce Expert. We think you will find the information he provides in the following... Continue reading

Tonyssports

almost 2 years ago

Sunny days
I'm looking for a woman friend at first, I have been doing a lot to change my life, and I need a break to unwind

DivorceForce

almost 2 years ago

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Spotlight: Amanda Sanders – Restyle Yourself After Separation/Divorce
Your relationship breaks down – comes to end. Are you thinking about reinventing yourself? This is a very common sentiment. DivorceForce had the pleasure of getting great input from Amanda Sanders on restyling after separation/divorce. Amanda is not only a fashion consultant, but she is one that... Continue reading

Markpatrick

almost 2 years ago

3 years after
How to find a girl after 29 years of marriage

DivorceForce

almost 2 years ago

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Is My Reaction to Divorce Normal? (by: Lisa Arends)
The following was shared on my Facebook page recently- “Some days I feel like I got the grief period beat and then something will happen and I catch myself crying.”   I responded in part, “That up and down is completely normal. The hurt will fade in time. Just keep your focus on where you want to... Continue reading

AAflygirl

almost 2 years ago

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Losing friends that were your and his together
It makes me sad that the friends we shared, married couples that we spend time with felt obligated to choose sides..... or it seemed that way.

Danieldoingok

almost 2 years ago

Happy but like to talk
Doing good but worried

DivorceForce

almost 2 years ago

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Do I Have to Make Him Chase Me? (by: Sandy Weiner)
  Rachel writes that the man she’s been seeing is moody and angry. “Do I have to make him chase me?” Here’s how to know when it’s time to walk away. — Hi Sandy, I’ve been seeing a man for over a year. We met online over a year ago. However, we had never met in person until recently. Over the... Continue reading

DivorceForce

almost 2 years ago

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3 Reasons Why You’re Not Over Your Ex (by: Vanessa Gaboleiro)
I have had several of my Readers reach out and ask for my advice on this topic. I decided to write about it knowing how intense and sensitive of a topic it is for so many of us. But the only way I can provide advice is to be honest in what I’m about to share. So let’s start here: One thought you... Continue reading

StrandedSpaceBoy

almost 2 years ago

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Lack of boundaries and too much codependent behavior; me AND her.

How did I become the bad guy?

Pink509

almost 2 years ago

Feeling lost

I just turned 30 yesterday & have 3 little girls I'm considering divorce but don't know how I'm going to do it alone I'm struggling with depression and don't know how to cope.

Tony69

almost 2 years ago

bored
What to do next

Honoree Corder

almost 2 years ago

Best Kept Secret: Post-Divorce Life is Amazing!
I wrote a post I thought every member of this community would enjoy!

Slim1964

almost 2 years ago

Help
How do you get an abusive husband to sign divorce papers who refuses

bb1954

almost 2 years ago

Looking
Free time

fireball0830

almost 2 years ago

Kids

Do any of you give the 'ex' pictures of the kids that you paid for such as sports or school pics, or do you give them the form and price list and let them get their own?

Driddle

almost 2 years ago

Being single
I'm really struggling with being divorced. How do you deal with the loneliness? How do you make new friends?

DivorceForce

almost 2 years ago

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Life Hacks for Single Parents: Finding Time for Yourself (by: Heather Quinn)
My experiences as a newly divorced mom are different from what I imagined they would be. Years earlier, like many mothers, I had taken on the role of working mom and wife. The do it all queen. Striving for perfection in every job and role I had and failing miserably because perfection was not... Continue reading

JackieBo

almost 2 years ago

Life During Divorce
Looking for emotional support, share stories, ideas, solutions. Thought I was smart & prepared... here I sit absolutely paralyzed....

TRuiz3

almost 2 years ago

Newly divorced

Hi everyone. I am newly divorced and looking for some new friendships.

Kenshullah

almost 2 years ago

Does life get easier?
Divorced almost a year and after a brief period of everything going OK it's going downhill fast

Victor1006

almost 2 years ago

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You only live once!
I'll be ok.... will I find love again?

Sooners

almost 2 years ago

Still In Love With Ex Wife!!!
I have been divorced now for just over a year. The problem was that I suffered from severe clinical depression and anxiety. I pushed her away the last 2 years of our marriage and was distant for the last 5 years. I even filed for the divorce. I hit rock bottom. When I did I finally got the h... Continue reading

Mandyb66

almost 2 years ago

Where to find love again
How to start over

Mandyb66

almost 2 years ago

Where ti start
Starting over again.

Wwillis410

almost 2 years ago

Confused maybe
I dnt really know what I'm doing. It's been a long time since I was single everything's new to me now.

Mauilyne

almost 2 years ago

Nee
I new at this

DivorceForce

almost 2 years ago

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“WHY” I Woke Up with a Heavy Heart This Morning (by: Pamela Elaine Nichols)
Have you ever awakened feeling that something heavy is on your heart? You know that feeling when something isn’t quite right, or that you have something to do that you didn’t do yet, or a big job or a big assignment you have to finish? That’s how I felt as soon as my eyes opened this morning. The... Continue reading

rykgen

almost 2 years ago

What Gives
I've been on this site a few times, conduct searches and can't ever find anyone in my area...and if I find ONE, he's no where near my age??!!!

DivorceForce

almost 2 years ago

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A Little Lighter and A Lot Happier (by: Anne Grey)
If you have been following my journey, you know that I separated from my ex-husband nearly two years ago and have been divorced for 18 months now. While divorce has truly been the best thing that could have happened in my life, it did force a lot of changes including selling my home and... Continue reading

Patrice

almost 2 years ago

Violation
Parent violating parenting plan

loudgirl90

almost 2 years ago

New life after divorce
Moving on with life after an affair, spouse and best friend affair

DivorceForce

almost 2 years ago

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Feeling Hopeless? It Will Get Better (by: Tara Eisenhard)
If you’re new to the Divorce Process, welcome to this ride. Please fasten your seat belt, remain in an upright position and restrain your fists at all times. What follows will be uncomfortable and disorienting. You can expect to tap dance (or stomp) across the entire emotional spectrum. It might... Continue reading

Ronniemats

almost 2 years ago

Time to connect
Been divorced for nearly a year now. Separated 14 months. It's time to connect with the opposite sex. Any takers?
Send me a message, who knows maybe we can be pen pals!

miccoates1965

almost 2 years ago

How to move on with my life
Got my divorce papers now what?

Mimigardner

almost 2 years ago

Remarriage
Waiting time to remarry was married 21 years

elenapalgova

almost 2 years ago

EoP
Nothing

KristeninBoston

almost 2 years ago

When the kids are asleep
I need to laugh

KerryAnn

almost 2 years ago

Looking for new friends

Life after divorce

Prdragonfly

almost 2 years ago

A fine date
A good day

bblaisdell862

almost 2 years ago

Afraid to meet men
Just joined this site. I am hopefully going to be divorced fairly soon. I was married for 33yrs, we were together for 37. He was/is an abuser. Physically, mentally, emotionally, and most of all-verbally. It took me leaving him 3 times before I finally moved out. It took a lot of courage. I moved ... Continue reading

DivorceForce

about 2 years ago

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The Shattering of Loss (by: Kate Chapman)
I have been shattered before. I remember this feeling. This aimless wandering around my house, not sure what to do next. The holding my daughter close and smelling her hair and being at once comforted and afraid. The explaining to my son that it is okay to actually feel something about this, that... Continue reading

Matthew123

about 2 years ago

Missing a big piece.
I haven't been single for 20 years. I am divorcing due to her infidelity and this is tough. I don't even know where to start. I just finished medical college and now the sky is the limit, but it's hard because I have only friends to share it with.

StrongClaire

about 2 years ago

Doing something this weekend
I am doing something this weekend on Saturday,getting some well needed pampering for myself.I know it was rough during the divorce and my mom said I needed this.Plus it is time for myself and thought my mom was right.A massage,nails are going to be done.I want to look good when it comes time star... Continue reading

Princess60

about 2 years ago

Separated
Dating

Trinhhoang

about 2 years ago

Miss

Sad

DivorceForce

about 2 years ago

La love

5 Steps to Surviving Valentine’s Day After Divorce (by: Lisa Arends)
1 – Change Your Mindset We have been conditioned to believe that when February 14th rolls around, it is desirable to be in a relationship and somehow unacceptable to be single. As though every partnered person will have a good day based solely upon their relationship status and every single... Continue reading

Janeelizabeth

about 2 years ago

Moving past anger
I am so stuck in anger and bitterness. I am recently divorced from a truly awful man after a 42 year relationship. I've got it all..I'm financially secure, have great kids, lots of friends, but I cannot move past the anger to enjoy what I have! I'm even tired of myself!

DivorceForce

about 2 years ago

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The Best Valentine’s Day Gift You May Ever Give Or Get (by: Vicki Larson)
It’s February — not just the month of Valentine’s Day, but also the height of engagement season. All around us, people are coupling up, proclaiming their love and flashing the bling to prove it. And here we are, divorced. Even if we’re happily divorced, it’s hard not to think about romantic love... Continue reading

StrongClaire

about 2 years ago

Finally over and moving on

The divorce is over finally,my now ex husband and I signed the papers today making the divorce final.Had no kids together and there were no child custody and support issues.I am getting spousal support,judge saw how much physical and verbal abuse he put me through.I finally made it through the tu... Continue reading

DivorceForce

about 2 years ago

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Getting Through Valentine’s Day When Divorcing (by: Wendi Schuller)
Valentine’s Day can be like rubbing salt into a raw wound when going through divorce. People are coupled up and you may be the odd man out on this holiday. Others who are exiting a toxic marriage, may feel relief not spending it with a nasty person. There are different facets to Valentine’s Day... Continue reading

vision33

about 2 years ago

My future looks brighter
Divorce doesn't have the right to hold you hostage. Though it's a traumatic event, if you can muster the will, tomorrow can be shape to your desire!

DivorceForce

about 2 years ago

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The Rule of Three? (by: Nadia Alegria Amore)
There’s a psychologist and relationship expert who advises women to embark on a Dating Program of Three. This program, as described by Diana Kirschner in her book Love in 90 Days, counters what she calls the “three-date” rule, an urban legend in which women should decide by the third date if a... Continue reading

DivorceForce

about 2 years ago

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8 Tips For Getting Back to the Party After Divorce (by: Karen Bigman)
I was out with a friend the other day who explained that he’d declined an invitation to a party because he was uncomfortable meeting people he didn’t know and particularly, trying to join a conversation in a social setting when he didn’t know anyone. We’ve all been in that awkward place where... Continue reading

ginagg2

about 2 years ago

Myself
I would like to meet a nice man to date

JackyJFC

about 2 years ago

=(
When the insecurity will go away??? Just fell like I would never will have a family

Medicrat57

about 2 years ago

heartbreaking

How do you give up and go on with your life?? 3 months and 3 weeks.

Tmarie

about 2 years ago

Valentin's day...newly divorced and alone
Dreading next week

Missy41

about 2 years ago

Woosaaa
You are responsible for your happiness! So be happy and be grateful!

DivorceForce

about 2 years ago

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When Your Former Family Doesn’t Respond. Do You Let Go or Keep Trying? (by: Patty Blue Hayes)
It’s still painful to let go of the former family relationships from my past married life. My heart guides me toward making change because as it is now, I feel sadness about the evaporation of past connections. My former mother-in-law was polite and welcoming after the divorce but since my ex... Continue reading

Beachebetty67

about 2 years ago

What's next?

How to get back out there

kentuckyboy8650

about 2 years ago

cheated on, mental/ psychological abuse
Too many things and not enough room to type it all.

BarbaraStevensBreakupRecoveryMentor

about 2 years ago

How Has Divorce Force Helped You ??
My name is Barbara Stevens and I host a podcast called ‘Breakup Recovery’. The podcast is a mixture of interviews with real women with real stories, experts in their fields and solo episodes where offer practical tips & ideas so you can begin your journey of recovery after your breakup.

I ... Continue reading

christinemeaslovee

about 2 years ago

Single and searching

I lost my ex to diabetes and i have been single ever since then for 2 years now.. I am single and looking for a good man. If interested please write me back lets get to know each other better

Nice2meetU

about 2 years ago

Hello
Support/info

Spartangirl

about 2 years ago

Dallas-Ft.Worth Area - looking for others walking the same journey
I live in the Dallas/Ft. Worth area and would be willing to take the lead on creating a group for us to all meet and be a support group for each other (no matter what stage you are in the process). I can bring a topic each time we might that provides advice, support, encouragement Etc. If anyone ... Continue reading

K8lyn28

about 2 years ago

Lost
I am feeling pretty lost. I was just told yesterday that my husband wants a divorce after only one year of marriage. He asked for a break the week before that and it broke my heart. We had been fighting a lot, but there will still so many good days and good times being had. Just the same day he a... Continue reading

Happynow

about 2 years ago

Moving On
House is finally closing today, 6 mos after the divorce was final. This is a long time coming and a great relief, financially. Crazy thing is that I just realized this morning that I can no longer go there, sit on the deck, look at the view. How did that not occur to me until just now? I supp... Continue reading

lilfirestick

about 2 years ago

Making it work

Life ... as a single mom

Lovely

about 2 years ago

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New me
Never give up

Sweetheart22

about 2 years ago

Life
Nothing much

Nursecindy

about 2 years ago

Being alone

It's hard being alone. How do you get over loneliness?

awagoner1977

about 2 years ago

dating
hello!

sandyp

about 2 years ago

Snaking out of it

Currently going through a divorce. One I didn't want but he didn't give me a choice in t be matter. I've been doing the whole isolation and drinking thing for far to long. People who have tried to get close I keep pushing away... any ideas that can help snap me out of it and get back to living

Kathie

about 2 years ago

Life after divorce with a narascist

How do you find the real you after years of living with a narascist ?

Saloma77

about 2 years ago

Still figuring out relationships/connections.
I like being single, because of the independence. But I still crave companionship and the deep connection that was missing in my marriage.

Mustangman

about 2 years ago

Lonely and looking for relationships

Facing divorce looking for people experiencing the same thing

Sher1234

about 2 years ago

Trust
Looking to find someone I trust

Serenity22

about 2 years ago

Is anyone out there honest anymore?
How can you love again after being so hurt?

SusanO

about 2 years ago

Confused
How do you get thru a ugly divorce and still keep your sanity and dignity at the same time

RStein

about 2 years ago

Why?
Hi all. After 35 years she said I just don't love you and I want a divorce. There has been no infidelity and I did everything she wanted. She was my whole life. Kids are grown with families of their own. Lucky me I get to keep the house and my best friend right now (dog). Even the dog looks... Continue reading

lindseyjfletch86

about 2 years ago

Miss the companionship

Long story short, I was married at 19 after knowing my husband for 2 months. We had 3 children and were married for 9 years! It was not a healthy relationship and he had a lot of secrets. The secrets caught up with him and he is in prison for life as of 2 years ago.

I am doing the best as I ca... Continue reading

Medicrat57

about 2 years ago

What to do?
I messed up numerous times! I love my wife so much and miss her. It's been 3.5 months I received divorce papers two days ago. This is killing me. 17 years!!

DonnaR

about 2 years ago

Saying Hello
I am new to this site and as many I see, just wanting to connect with others who are lost, hurting and numb from a separation or divorce. I was with my best friend for 17 years and we were the couple everyone thought would be together for a life time. We have been separated for a year and offic... Continue reading

DivorceForce

about 2 years ago

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5 Lessons Learned From My Divorce (by: Abby King)
Join the Conversation on DivorceForce Today! I was with my ex-husband for 16 years and have been divorced for three. The separation and divorce process are at times heartbreaking, heavy, confusing, and throughout it all, always enlightening. Here are 5 lessons I learned along the... Continue reading

Suzspeare

about 2 years ago

Looking for friendships
I am trying to make new friends. Some friends disappeared with the divorce and I know very few people my age who are divorced. I also have grown children.

SmokinCageFighter35

about 2 years ago

numb
What to say other than the feeling I am currently feeling " numb". I have been dealing with the separation for about 2 months, and I am tired of staying strong. I just wish this was all a dream and I could wake up from all this chaos that I call my life now.

Aag0316

about 2 years ago

Hurting
Trying to move on. Had to move in apartment, hate it, in process of buying. Wanted my children to celebrate a new chapter, everyone has other things to do. Just so wanted to get together. Been left alone to deal with divorce, which wasn't my doing.

WriteAndPlant

about 2 years ago

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Hello.
Well, this looks interesting so far. Thought I'd post about my new life since I've been putzing around and answering others posts. :) So, I've been out of my 20yr abusive marriage for nearly 2yrs now. He was all of the things on the list, just not physical...so that made it OK (according to him a... Continue reading

MsJones

about 2 years ago

Lost
I was married for 20 years. Very abusive relationship that needed to be over. Now that it finally is, I feel a loss and really don't know to deal with it. I forgot what really makes me happy.

Deano66

about 2 years ago

Whats next?
What to do with free time.

Sweetmi

about 2 years ago

Life
Sad

Joe805

about 2 years ago

Mr
Looking for a beautiful baby mother

Yolanda

about 2 years ago

Friendships
How can I meet friends

fireball0830

about 2 years ago

Frustrated and Guilt
I am recently divorced after being married for 17 years with 2 children. In the beginning I thought we both agreed on the separation/ divorce, however, now he tells everyone I wasnt happy and he pleads the poor husband that got kicked out. We discussed the separation together, sat our kids dow... Continue reading

LisaMG

about 2 years ago

In process of divorce..wanting friends that understand...
Looking for divorced persons desiring friendship....no desire to get into any relationship..only friends

Riadadml

about 2 years ago

Question
After a 30 year relationship and grown children what do you do when you find yourself single?

mosscindy

about 2 years ago

lost
What am I to do now, after 32 years after Marriage?

okiegirl3271

about 2 years ago

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Angie
The new me

clarkj818

about 2 years ago

New to the group!
Looking to discuss my situation with people finding themselves in a similar situation.

cowboy01

about 2 years ago

broken man
Looking for someone

claru48

about 2 years ago

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Utilizada
Divorciada porq él es mucho más joven

mimi56

about 2 years ago

Getting my feet wet!
New to all of this. . In process of divorce after 40 yrs of marriage

DonnaR

about 2 years ago

New
New to this site...

Gwolfe

about 2 years ago

Ms
Want to meet a great connection

Gwolfe

about 2 years ago

Ms
I am divorced and looking for a great guy

edward

about 2 years ago

separation & cyclically deprassed
separated from last six month. I am clinically depress. And my wifes face book page says she is having time of her life. & i dnot know real reason for separation . she gave several lame excuses & left me . any suggestion

Traceylat

about 2 years ago

Hanging in there

Hoping for a better year

cowboy01

about 2 years ago

looking for a companion
Depression

stephensonsandy

about 2 years ago

All work and no play
Loneliness

DFWLizz17

about 2 years ago

6 years later
The afterwards

DivorceForce

about 2 years ago

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What’s your story after your break-up? Who have you become? (by: Joanne Michelle)
Join the Conversation on DivorceForce Today! Life can seem uncertain, crazy, and impossible at times and a break-up can totally take you off the rails… If you are feeling like you are off track, you need to ask yourself a few questions and understand where your head is. What's... Continue reading

Panagirl

about 2 years ago

My new life.
Moving forward! New experiences.

reb32eca

about 2 years ago

Dating or relationship anxiety after divorce
I currently have no desire to be in a relationship nor date. The thought gives me high anxiety, tightness in my chest. Has others felt this way after a divorce?

RealReggy

about 2 years ago

Looking for a companion
I am looking for someone to have dinner with and conversation.

Prdoug1

about 2 years ago

Wiped out
Depression

WendyL

about 2 years ago

Divorce
How to move on after divorce

Aldara

about 2 years ago

Be positive in negative situation

Dealing with overthinking and anger.

Princess1109

about 2 years ago

No more conflict
Well I have been seperated now 4 months, and I love it no more conflict, and no more being controlled.

Brookholow

about 2 years ago

Its been tough
Ive been seperated two years and dating some but nothing serious yet. And he is already dating someone exclusive thats not even his type.. has that happened to you?

yannifive

about 2 years ago

Besides a personal bed warmer, I really miss the cooking

Home cooked Meals

camerasweets

about 2 years ago

Breaking Habits - Divorce is like mourning death

I'm starting to realize that divorce is like death. And I don't mean that I'm dying or anything dramatic like that. I just mean that... similar to when someone dies, you forget and bc we do so many things unconsciously without thinking and we've formed so many of them throughout our relationshi... Continue reading

ivabergeron

about 2 years ago

Dating
Having trouble finding compatible dating scenarios

Littlebarb

about 2 years ago

Little Barb confussed
When should you start a new relationship

Ready1968

about 2 years ago

What's next
Ready to move on just not sure how.

Ymg2209

about 2 years ago

Here i come world

Dating again it's been a long time. Feel I'm ready

marielee0901

about 2 years ago

Can't forgive yet
I've been divorced for 3 years. Will there ever come a time that I will be able to look at my ex-husband and not feel hurt and angry?

lonelyguy

about 2 years ago

What to do

Why is it so hard for me to move on ? Why can't I except it that it's over ? I always ask myself was I that bad of a husband and father ? My kids still tell me they love me and care about me .

JoeCar

about 2 years ago

Recently Separated
I am recently separated (as of a few days ago), and it has put my on my ass. I am really struggling. I feel like each morning is complete battle in my mind to get up and get through the day. I want all of this pain to go away. By the end of the day I am so tired from battling with myself. I ... Continue reading

Readyforthenextchapter

about 2 years ago

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Adult children relationships
Looking for advice

Sexystar75

about 2 years ago

Whats next
What's next

missyg

about 2 years ago

Hello.

Hello everyone. Iam recently divorced. I haven't had a good support group. I believe I'll find that here.

Jshugolf

about 2 years ago

First entry
Coping problem

Jenn

about 2 years ago

Divorced after 19 years
Hi everyone, I'm newly divorced and working on putting the focus back on the things that I love. I lost that somewhere in my 19 year relationship, so focusing on my mental and physical wellbeing.

Donna860

about 2 years ago

Coping
It's the first anniversary of my divorce

Mxwrbrb

about 2 years ago

Hello
New to this

josiejo

about 2 years ago

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Trusting God!
Trusting God!

Rebeemarie43

about 2 years ago

Time
I heard the saying "Time heals all wounds". I believed this while in an abusive marriage until I was handed divorce papers.
I believe it was because I began standing up for myself instead of just taking it.
Divorce is somthing I would have never thought would happen even after my husband moved... Continue reading

Cindylee

about 2 years ago

Look no further
Looking for a friend first, then a companion to date

Manofstandard1

about 2 years ago

Finding a friend
Loneliness

TinaE113

about 2 years ago

Moving on
Newly single. Holidays are hard even though I know divorce was best. Looking forward to the new year and getting on with my life.

Neb1976

about 2 years ago

Very
Bored

Katness

about 2 years ago

Texting
Why does my ex text me every other week since our divorce. it's been a year

riflemanwjs

about 2 years ago

new life
starting over

Trish0204

about 2 years ago

Info? Opinions?
Ok so whats the deal with this site?

Lisa Williams Driver

about 2 years ago

Divorcing a Colvert narcissist

I hate missing him when he doesn't miss me at all . It's so crazy to think the man I married 27 years ago is a complete stranger and I found out now he is into sex toys (vibrators ) as I found it purchased on his amazon account. He is a firefighter and 48 years old . He has never talked about sex... Continue reading

Happy4ya24

about 2 years ago

Alone
The feeling of being alone during the holidays sux.

Dale1963

about 2 years ago

Hello
Looking happiness

Dale1963

about 2 years ago

Hello
Looking someone tired of being alone

DivorceForce

about 2 years ago

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An Effective Alternative to Judgement During Divorce (by: Karen McMahon)
Join the Conversation on DivorceForce Today! I often coach my clients around the impact that being judgmental has on them, the people they interact with and their circumstances. I invite them to be discerning rather than judgmental and have found that there is significant... Continue reading

Sunkiss

about 2 years ago

Liife after divorce
I've been though this. Life does go on!! Happy you will be again :)

DivorcedAt45

about 2 years ago

Holiday blues
Dealing with the holidays, anyone having a difficult time?

lonelyguy

about 2 years ago

Why

Why is it when I first wake up I check my phone to see if she sent me a message ? Is it wishful thinking ? Why does our hearts have to play games with us like this ?

Nicholle

about 2 years ago

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Hi
Hi- I'm looking to meet new friends that have similar interests. I've been divorced for a little over a year and am ready to meet people and have fun!

lonelyguy

about 2 years ago

lonely

It's very hard already going through a divorce but with the holidays it's making it extremely difficult . I stay lonely but I'm scared to move on . I still love her but it's complicated . At times she will talk to me and at other times she won't say a word to me . I wish we could just communicate... Continue reading

Tracyh

about 2 years ago

Holiday gloom
Holidays are extremely difficult for me. This particular holiday especially, my ex husband is spending the holidays in Vegas with his new woman while I'm here to comfort our kids during Christmas. It's their first Christmas without their dad.

Jane4344

about 2 years ago

What do I do?
Experiencing a new kind of lonely

vegas007z

about 2 years ago

Cheater trying to come back when things get tough

My ex is trying hard to win me back. He is a narcissist and he cheated twice currently has a baby to soon be on the way with current girlfriend. and we share a son.

Sallyann

about 2 years ago

What I never knew existed
I'm lonely, not in the conventional way, because I don't want people around me a lot or at all really. I'm scared of losing him completely, whatever that means. I'm missing him, wishing things were different, so confused, so sad and mad as hell.

Lawchick

about 2 years ago

Single again, really?

How do I go back to being single?

Janettee

about 2 years ago

Frustrated
If you are married 32 years how long before you are truly ready for a new relationship?

AcDone

about 2 years ago

Divorced
Moving on

Protectheart

about 2 years ago

Is there anyone out there for me ?
I am scared but unhappy. Do not want to hurt him or children. Wanted out for decades now just do not know how to go about leaving.

Meljenness

about 2 years ago

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Let It Be
Learning who I am

DivorceForce

about 2 years ago

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How Divorce Works: 10 Rules You Need to Understand (by: Karen Covy)
Join the Conversation on DivorceForce Today! Have you ever tried to play a game without understanding the rules? If you have, chances are, the game did not go well for you. You probably lost big time. Going through a divorce is similar. In order to survive it (because no one ever... Continue reading

tamara

about 2 years ago

I have never understood why divorce is seen as a failure. So divorced people are failures? I don't think so.

Who decided that divorce is a failure

Who Decided Divorce is a Failure?
50% of married couples eventually get divorced. But does that mean that 50% of people are a failure? Why do we struggle with feelings of failure?

Makanda

about 2 years ago

How to start living again
Making new friends in a new area

DivorceForce

about 2 years ago

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The Promise I Made Myself Six Years Ago (by: Vanessa Gaboleiro)
Join the Conversation on DivorceForce Today! Even though I wasn't ready to accept it that day, I knew that once I boarded that plane — my life was going to be very different. I was moving back home after having lived abroad for seven years. And after being married for almost two... Continue reading

lindamoodbenji

about 2 years ago

Single
How do you start over with another woman

Billy4278

about 2 years ago

Hurting
Getting past the hurt

KeepingFaith1

about 2 years ago

Losing self
How to find self, through it all.

loyal2JC

about 2 years ago

Broken cycle
4 years of being separated, 10 years together, 4 kids later, and ready to move on!

Crystal1970

about 2 years ago

What to do now???
So I went to court yesterday and my divorce decree will be mailed. I guess I should be grateful that the fighting wasn't too terrible yet bad enough. I'm terrified to start my new life. I'm scared of being alone for the rest of my life but I don't trust anyone with my feelings so...idk

Applepeel

about 2 years ago

Ex controlling relationships through the kids
My ex husband has my kids convinced that my best friend, who has been great to my kids, should no longer be in my life. My ex has exploited the fact that she had a confrontation with him to my kids. My kids are friends with my friend's kids and have been for years. My 10 year old daughter will... Continue reading

Donna5095

about 2 years ago

Starting over
Where does one begin?

DivorceForce

about 2 years ago

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How far I have come … or not (by: Christine Mathieu, B.Msc.)
Join the Conversation on DivorceForce Today! After attending my 30 th High School Reunion, it became clear to me how far I have come. I have become more at ease with myself because I choose not to see my past as a string of failures anymore. Words like divorcee , single... Continue reading

loly0114

about 2 years ago

I feel blue today :(
i just came from work and today is one of those day that i would like to have sombody who was waiting for me and say " hey how was your day going" i divorced a year and 2 months after 26 yrs to be together wich i decide married after 18 years . i feel blue today . :(

Lilone48

about 2 years ago

Worst ever
Being single is the worst during holiday times! I love love love my children and having them home

DivorceForce

about 2 years ago

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Healthy Communication Post- Divorce (by Dr. Anne Brown RNCS)
Join the Conversation on DivorceForce Today! Divorce is one of those life lessons that can derail us for a long time or produce a breakdown that leads to many breakthroughs. It is really our choice on whether we want to use our divorce to stagnant or grow. You may be sitting... Continue reading

DivorceForce

about 2 years ago

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The Holidays. The Divorce. The Dread. (by: Patty Blue Hayes)
Join the Conversation on DivorceForce Today! This was the time of year when I tested my liver to its maximum capabilities. I flooded it with red wine flowing from fancy glasses, strong vodka disguised in a feminine pink Cosmo and goblets of craft beer. I don't even like beer. But... Continue reading

hopeful

about 2 years ago

Starting over
I am so upset at how things turned out for my kids, not happy that we are all seperated, I was not meant to be alone

Scarlett

about 2 years ago

Empty
How does one stop loving someone? My husband had two affairs before our divorce. He moved in with one of them before the divorce. After this I should stop loving him but I haven't been able to. Life is so empty without him. I do not know how to let go and move forward. I am sure I am not alon... Continue reading

Flora291

about 2 years ago

Yeah how do you move on after a 20 year marriage
Moving on in Norcal

DivorceForce

about 2 years ago

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So Many Feelings Experienced as I Moved Back into My Maritial Home (by: Lindsey Light)
Join the Conversation on DivorceForce Today! 24 days ago, my life changed. 24 days ago, my roommate, best friend, and platonic soul mate and I parted ways after two years of living together. She was off to pursue her PhD, and I was about to find out what living alone was like. 24... Continue reading

loly0114

about 2 years ago

Holidays

How to deal with the holidays and loneliness? is too hard for me .

Romans

about 2 years ago

Happyness
Confusion

Shawnnafrisbie

about 2 years ago

Help
How do I start over after 26 years

DivorceForce

about 2 years ago

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I Need To Be Married (by: Kyle Bradford aka ChopperPapa)
Join the Conversation on DivorceForce Today! It's undeniable, like gravity – I need to be married. I don't need marriage for its material benefits. As a divorced father, I lived better than most in similar situations. I don't need marriage to ease domestic responsibilities.... Continue reading

klbjones63

about 2 years ago

Friends?
Looking for friends to talk to in my area. Been almost 2 years now. I'm ready to find good people to be around.

tealeaf

about 2 years ago

Holidays
My almost ex husband walked out last thx giving. But pretended to still be with the family. He travels a lot. Ihave 2 sons with birthdays in December. He took off last year on Dec 6 after a sons birthday party and didn't come home until December 25. I found out afterwards that during that ti... Continue reading

sferguson2

about 2 years ago

Thankful

Loneliness

Reuven

about 2 years ago

How do I fill in the hole
Feeling lost. Without my kids

Ajaxxx

about 2 years ago

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Friendships wanted
Wanting to make new trust worthy friends

LaurieW1012

about 2 years ago

Divorce then cancer
Because I got cancer months after my divorce, I lost everything. I have had to move out if state mid-care to my brother's. I'm so lonely.

gtwillison

about 2 years ago

Looking for a lady companion

I'm new to this trying to find a lady companion in the Springfield MO area. I'm looking for a second chance and a new life. Hit me up if your interested in texting first...then we'll see where it goes from there

Carole

about 2 years ago

Finally
Hello

Budlite67

about 2 years ago

Looking for friends
Hello

ern261452

about 2 years ago

How and where?
I want to create a network of people in my area that have similar interests as me. Where and how do I go to do this? I need to move forward with my life after my divorce but don't know where to begin

Gilbert

about 2 years ago

Need new friends

So how do you make new friends after you've been married for 12 years and lost your self and everything in it

justinmbrennan

about 2 years ago

Help
In the middle of divorce and lonely

Froglovingal

about 2 years ago

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Want a loving longterm relationship
Brand new to site

jamesw5

about 2 years ago

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Hi, I'm Jim and I'm divorced

Life begins now...

Shellyrandersen

about 2 years ago

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Strength in letting go
Scared of the unknown

Ralphelj

about 2 years ago

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Is their life out there?
Hello divorce force members. I'm a 50 year old man looking for new friends and dating or good conversation.

DivorceForce

about 2 years ago

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How To Rebuild Your Circle of Friends (by: Tara Eisenhard)
Join the Conversation on DivorceForce Today! One of the unfortunate truths about divorce is that you end up losing friends in addition to a spouse. Nobody wants it to happen. Most try to avoid it with the best of intentions. But, it happens. There are a myriad of reasons for... Continue reading

Annie Koci

about 2 years ago

Sad and lonely for the holidays
Holidays suck now. I used to spend them with all of my ex and his extended family. I want the best for my boys so I send them to spend those days with their dad's and their entire families so they can still be apart of the love and joy they bring. But in doing so it makes me alone. I haven't cel... Continue reading

loisparson69

about 2 years ago

My new life
Moving on

cannonjason

about 2 years ago

all alone
All of this cost me my career,is anyone hiring.Im willing to relocate. I've got to get my life back on track..help

cannonjason

about 2 years ago

alone
It's tough losing your entire family

Marina418

about 2 years ago

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New friends.
Looking for friends to support me in this journey.

Turtlelove

about 2 years ago

Dating novice
I've been divorced for almost a year now. Dating now is so different from the last time I was single 21 years ago. I don't even know the "rules" LOL. I have tried the online thing for a while...yuck!!

DivorceForce

about 2 years ago

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The Gift in Creating New Traditions Post Divorce (by: Dr. Kristin Davin)
Join the Conversation on DivorceForce Today! Divorce is difficult and challenging in its own right - everyone knows that. There are a number of ebbs and flows that occur from when a couple first separates until the final "D" judgment. However, despite the roller coaster that... Continue reading

dionisio

about 2 years ago

I know someone is out there for me
I want to start a new chapter of my life and move on, my boys are 18 and 19
and i can`t be alone anymore I want to love and be loved

Scott69

about 2 years ago

LOST IN THE HOLIDAYS
MY FIRST THANKSGIVING ALONE WE ALWAYS HAD IT AT MY HOUSE .I WENT TO THE ATTIC YESTERDAY AND FOUND OUT NOT ONLY DID SHE CLEAN OUT MY HOUSE SHE TOOK ALL THE XMAS STUFF THAT WAS ALWAYS MY JOB WE HAVE HAD THE SAME TREE FOR 23 OF THE 25 YEARS WE WERE MARRIED

Tryingtobepositivr

about 2 years ago

Thanksgiving 2016
First Thanksgiving after he left me! I can't believe this had happened.

DivorceForce

about 2 years ago

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4 Tips For Enjoying the Holidays Single (by: Lindsey Light)
Join the Conversation on DivorceForce Today! I love the holidays. I mean LOVE. I get out the Christmas tree and snowman wreath and winter décor as early as I deem possible without looking insane. I turn on the Christmas music, and the kids and I dance and sing around the house... Continue reading

LSV2017

about 2 years ago

Trying to Move On
Im new to this site and happy to have found it! Im recently divorced (July 2016) and had been separated 10 months prior to the divorce. Was with the ex for 26 years (23 married) and have 3 children. In August my ex was "fixed up" with someone and has been seeing her since. Im not going to lie...... Continue reading

Teriasone

about 2 years ago

How can i feel ok
Mixed feelings about my decision to divorce two years ago

Dosis1

about 2 years ago

Hmmm not sure how this site works

Hi

Weezer

about 2 years ago

New friends
Starting over making new friends

GFlick1

about 2 years ago

Overwhelmed

Trying to figure out how to put things back together in my life

hlucas1363

about 2 years ago

Lonely
Need a friend

1James

about 2 years ago

Foot in the water
Getting to meet people again

Sadeyes1961

about 2 years ago

Lonely without you !!
Meeting some one

Itsmytimenow

about 2 years ago

Newly divorced
Looking to restart my life with new, positive experiences and people!

Cman88

over 2 years ago

none
bored

Realtorkatie

over 2 years ago

How to set appropriate boundaries

Dealing with boundaries

DivorceForce

over 2 years ago

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Finding New Meaning in the Holidays After Divorce (by: Vicki Larson)
Join the Conversation on DivorceForce Today! There's a chill in the air, tree leaves have turned into outrageous shades of red, orange and yellow colors before dropping to the ground, and everywhere you turn there are pumpkins and smells of cinnamon and cloves. Which means the... Continue reading

Dreamcatcher

over 2 years ago

Feeling alone

Not understanding the cruelty of the human race especially when you claim to love another person

b1gk0untry82

over 2 years ago

mr.romantic
Looking for a vood woman

Alfred Torres

over 2 years ago

Looking for friendships, possibly more
Being alone

Beginningagain

over 2 years ago

Lonely
Looking for friendships. Moved across the country after my divorce.

Bryan71

over 2 years ago

Any ideas?
Both still love each other but can't live together .. Worst feeling ever

jjohnson83

over 2 years ago

Divorce hurts as much as a death but worse because you still have to see them

Divorcing someone you love but know they are not healthy for you

ATXDomaindad

over 2 years ago

Just a ATX Domain Dad
Too much drama!

Deejay2015

over 2 years ago

Looking for some friends maybe more
Am I ready to do this again?

TomCat

over 2 years ago

Dating after divorce
It took me 2 years after divorce. You will find someone special too you. You may have to kiss alot of frogs till you find your Prince. But when you do find them. You will learn too love again.

marilumach

over 2 years ago

staring over
Looking for friends I feel alone

Hazeliholly

over 2 years ago

Scared
I'm trying to move on with my life after my divorce in December 2015.

dennielledez

over 2 years ago

Happiness
Mix

justwright

over 2 years ago

Meet new friends
Would like conversation.

Perrisherrill

over 2 years ago

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Finding Individual Identity
I've been divorced 2 years after being married 33 years. I have grown in so many ways but thought I would have found more peace with being single.

kimberly2day

over 2 years ago

Hey everyone

Just going through divorce saw this site wanted to see what it's about

DivorceForce

over 2 years ago

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7 Tips For Getting Through Your Divorce In One Piece (by Dr. Karen Finn)
Join the Conversation on DivorceForce Today! Even if your divorce is tearing you apart, you can come out of it whole. When you're going through a divorce, it feels like you're running a marathon or two every single day. You're spent. You're running on fumes. And there's... Continue reading

Marsha

over 2 years ago

Sharing divorce
Would like to know how others are coping with divorce.

Birdiegirl7

over 2 years ago

Alone
Alone and confused is what I feel today

Rlewis

over 2 years ago

Life after divorce

Life after

George

over 2 years ago

New life
Start a new life

littlecam0968

over 2 years ago

Feeling hopeless
Just looking for people to talk to

mrmyers2000

over 2 years ago

Where is life
Where to go from here

JDaryl

over 2 years ago

Ew
I'm not sure how this works

Shaleenkc

over 2 years ago

New Chapter
Going with the flow

dtsuzyb

over 2 years ago

Feeling beautiful AFTER divorce...
I received the most amazing compliment a few days ago... Someone I had just met and talked with for a bit said to me shocked, "Why would anyone divorce you?!?!?" It took me a few minutes to wipe the smile off my face and catch my breath from what I felt was a beautiful compliment - and I respon... Continue reading

Trina2012

over 2 years ago

How to start over ?

What do you do now ?

jovy08

over 2 years ago

Divorce is a serious outcry and it sucks!
I'm new to this site. How is this thing works?

lisaetn

over 2 years ago

Life after divorce
Reclaiming your life after divorce is hard.

johnstewart78

over 2 years ago

Lonely
Being alone in my new apartment sucks...after 19 yr marriage i really wasnt ready for this but who is

Brentn

over 2 years ago

New to this
Just divorced. Now what

Raquel

over 2 years ago

Getting a divorce

Needing some support

Ccdevil

over 2 years ago

Meeting a nice woman
Meeting a nice girl for frienships

RnSuzieq

over 2 years ago

Friends
Dating tips

Readyflyer

over 2 years ago

Ready to live!
Happiness comes from within...

hldservices

over 2 years ago

Warm and friendly
Friendships and support

singleandhappy

over 2 years ago

hard to get back to dsting
does anyone get back in dating after being divorce?

Mt1dteamer

over 2 years ago

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Starting over
What to do as a single father?

LidiaR1986

over 2 years ago

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kind and loving
Looking for someone special

Robear1

over 2 years ago

Confidence and self esteem
Feeling lost and stuck after 34 years of marriage

Teresa7

over 2 years ago

What to do after divorce
What to do after divorce

raymondcole24

over 2 years ago

What's after a divorce
How do you get past being married for 25 years and she

Dinger

over 2 years ago

Getting out
Where is a good place to meet some people I'm sick of the bar scene

Mdc122957

over 2 years ago

58 yrs. old very positive
Dating after Divorce

Positive1forU

over 2 years ago

No baggage to check. Carry on only
Active and fun looking to find the same mindset

Stuart

over 2 years ago

Is it possible?

I'm headed towards being single after being married for 26 years and together for over 30. I really thought that marriage was forever and that we would eventually grow old together. But both of us don't think that way. Our divorce will be as friendly as possible and we don't hate each other, but ... Continue reading

Minotdave52

over 2 years ago

Minot link
Recently legally divorced, marriage caused me serious depression and anxiety problems. Can anyone deal with this? I filed finally.

IamJoe

over 2 years ago